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"I do what I want, when I want." That usually gets an envious wry facial expression and a nod. If that doesn't satisfy, I tell them what I do for a 2 evening a week stress-free "j*b" as a front desk concierge at an off-site college center; they are usually jealous then. :coolsmiley: But I...

I try similar keys, and they help, but there is still resentment. I picked up a part-time j*b two evenings a week which helps by showing my attempt, and even more importantly, getting me out of the house at least those two evenings thereby allowing "her" time. Regardless, I'm glad that I...

Nailed it at 54 (well, I'll be that in a month). :coolsmiley:

Congrats! Your surreal conversation with the boss reminded me of the one I had last year with mine. I disliked the guy, but I still felt something like nervousness although I think it was more of my leaping off the cliff. Once I did it the sense of relief was awesome. Good luck.

I like being retired at 53. The freedom to do what I want, when I want, is wonderful. However, my situation is a bit different than most. DW still works which provides the ability to not have to access savings and maintain our lifestyle even though I have run simulations through FIRECalc...

Excellent post Fiddler.

I can say I was one lucky dude. The first 6 years I was well respected but a bit bored which made me search for other opportunities. I got on with a startup, received some stock options and managed to eventually change my job type. I continued in that type of job through 7 buyouts...

If you can, do it now. DW and I took a European river cruise this past fall with a group of friends. We all had a great time. 10 days after our return, one of our group had a heart attack and died. Really hit home to do what you can while you can. Unfortunately for me, DW still works so our...

Good luck with your decision. My thoughts in-line. Cheers.

This is a similar situation to one on which I requested feedback several months ago before I took the plunge. It's been 4 1/2 months since I retired (I've been calling it "auditioning retirement" although it's likely permanent) while DW continues to work likely for the next 7-8 years because...

It's WONDERFUL...

I was in a situation where I needed some actions to take place before I could announce. They were taking longer than I wanted and I was getting frustrated. Finally all were completed and I was able to give my resignation. It was one of the best days. I was in a situation where I knew I...

Wow this sounds familiar. I would have liked to get laid off but was well thought of within the company. Just finally reached the point of "had enough" and resigned. 2 months RE so far and haven't looked back. Only my working DW probably is glancing back. ;D

Congrats! I'm completing m 6th week of ER and loving it. Of all the positives, the best for me is that I am sleeping at night. I used to get up in the middle of the night with my brain going a million miles an hour about the 17 things I was working on, knowing that 13 weren't getting done...

Congrats. I'm a fellow (ex)enginerd. Now in my 6th week of ER. Have discovered (rather than rediscovered) the library. The best thing (at least for me) is the ability to download books to the Kindle. Merely search on-line and request. No going to the library; no need to return. Started my...

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Your situation has some similarities to mine except for the age (I'm 6 years older), stress level (mine was medium to high) and semi-retired DW (mine works full time and wants to continue for the next 9 years). I guess it's not that similar after all. ;) Regardless, perhaps you should check...

Good luck Unrealized. I'm a week into ER after resigning. Like Llep, I too left on good standing. In fact, I have an offer from my former boss to contact him should I decide that I want to work again. Right now I'm just trying to figure out the next phase of my life. Doing all kinds of...

It is done Haven't been on for a while. That's likely to change. I am ER'd. Gave my 3 weeks notice and last Friday was my last day! It was (and still is) a weird feeling to leave a job in which I was employed for a long time and was making good money and while my DW is still working...

Beautiful shot! I have a similar mirroring one from Maroon Bells in CO.

Still on track for giving my notice within the next few weeks after certain actions are completed. Looking forward to the next phase of my life! Thanks all.

Thanks all for the words of wisdom. DW and I have discussed my "role" if I RE and she doesn't: I would pick up the household chores that we either share or she does now. I'm fine with that and I think she'll be happy to be unburdened from those. I think that will be fine initially. The main...

Been working at same job for 23+ years and 6 more years of similar work before that and looking for a change. Not wanting to do the same type of work (software) and really just ready to RE. DW and I could probably both RE with a minor lifestyle change, but DW has a good job with the gov't and...