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  1. Kitty

    how long did it take you to adjust/get into a nonwork routine?

    I am not sure how long it took for me to adjust. I know I never wanted to return to work. I think it took a few months to let go of the got to do it right now thought pattern. Slowly I let go of the feisty attitude and just let things be what ever they will be. Now I don't care if school keeps...
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    Virginia Beach?

    VB I don't know if they have solved the violence problem around the bars on the beach or not. While I lived in the area there was a lot of fights, stabbings and shootings after the bars closed most of the perps were college age people with the occasional career criminal thrown in the mix. The...
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    Virginia Beach?

    I lived in Portsmouth VA for a couple of years just before ER. Whether VB, Norfolk or Portsmouth your going to have to deal with traffic problems, crime, the noise and over crowding high taxes and badly behaved residents. I had a boat there on the river and went sailing as often as my job would...
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    living the life you envisioned? or totally changed?

    ER turned out to be one of the best decisions I ever made. I am not very productive in that I don't work or produce anything for anyone and don't care to either. I bought a farm and had a wonderful time raising calves, goats, ducks, chickens and a big garden. Due to changes in my health I have...
  5. Kitty

    Why do you get out of bed in the morning?

    Life Is Good My reason is I have things to do, pets to take care of I am owned by two dogs and two cats, they want out and to be fed. I am a news junkie so I have to find out what happened over night, so while I am feeding pets and making my own breakfast I turn on the news. I feel so much...
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    going full time in 1 year

    There are other clubs to belong to that cut the price of camping just do a google search. Also there is a Work Camping group and magazine. Usually the amount of work is little and with your skill of shoeing horses should find some very interesting positions that will help you meet a lot of...
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    retirement was painful

    You have to do what ever makes you happy. You are happy working I was not I love being retired I checked my ambition at the door to retirement and walked out without it. Life is great for both of us. :) Kitty
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    If you're really retired, what are you saving your uniforms for?

    As we used to say in the Army "three move equals one fire". I have moved so many times that I have few things left from my previous military career some medals and badges in a shadow box and of course my retirement orders and DD214. When I retired from Customs and Border Protection I kept my...
  9. Kitty

    Would Like Some Advice

    I worked for a nut case he almost drove me crazy :rant:... I cut and run after agonizing over the loss of potential income. My reality is it didn't matter that much, to me, financially. Be sure you are worrying about the right thing. Not telling anyone your plans to retire at fifty-five is a...
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    To Successful ER's...what were the 6 issues you focused on in the 6 mos prior to ER?

    Keep your eye on the prize Remember this is all about you and your family. Do the best you can to prepare, try to think ahead like the logical soul you are, then PULL THE PLUG when your ready! It would be a safe bet if the organization felt you should go they wouldn't hesitate to send you...
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    To Successful ER's...what were the 6 issues you focused on in the 6 mos prior to ER?

    A big so what ? 1) What can I sell the boat for and how fast? 2) what can I sell the house for and how fast? 3) Verify my retirement eligibility again. 4) Can I get rid of my stuff and junk when I sell the house/boat? 5) How can I get the rest of my stuff to my next home. 6) How will I manage...
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    Its finally here

    Can't go back Enjoy your freedom - there is no going back! ;D How true, no way could I go back to work at the same place, I have tasted the sweetness of liberty and nothing else will do from now on. If some boss were to mistake me for an employee and get in my face or even make a face he/she...
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    55+ housing: condo or other?

    Never again will I own a condo anything. There is just to much that can go very wrong. My sad story is that I bought a very small studio condo years ago in Tucson. What happened was that the owner that was selling the condos was funneling the association fees directly into his personal bank...
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    Florida and double wides

    Hon, it don't matter what you are in if a F-5 hits it, it is gone unless it is a bomb shelter. Same with a category five hurricane. Both tornadoes and hurricanes in that group can knock over railroad cars, block buildings, rip trees out of the ground snap telephone poles like twigs. One might...
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    Florida and double wides

    I owned a double wide for several years. It had some very good features like it was inexpensive to heat and cool. There was R-30 in the roof, R-19 in the walls and floor. It felt like a substantial building. Mine had a fireplace two baths three bedrooms came with appliances, drywall tape and...
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    loosehead at loose ends

    Let It Be Habits are hard to give up - not impossible:). You will be as happy and as involved as you decide to be, the decision will be made by you in your own good time. Enjoy today and how you feel, who knows what tomorrow brings? It took quite a while for me to unwind from from the stress...
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    Does anyone out there "work" in their retirement?

    Interesting thread, been reviewing my situation lately and came to the conclusion that I am retired. I don't want a J-O-B. I always hated being told what to do, how to do it, where to do it, when to do it. I did what I was told, believed the party line as best as I was capable of at the time...
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    The (emotional) freedom of FIRE

    Ooooh ya, :) Just getting up in the morning and not having to see hear or smell the B*****d who supervised me is such a blessing, like a huge load of my shoulders. I look forward to my day and don't care what happens in the old work place that is no longer a part of me just history. Enjoy...
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    Staying in a motel ... no really - staying!

    I don't know of any now but when I was a child I went to school in Cambridge Mass. and down the street from the school was a hotel, this hotel was called a residence hotel. It had quite a few older people who rented suites there, they had some nice amenities like a doorman, housekeepers, fresh...
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    What Makes Your Retirement Place the Best?

    Has anyone tried Mexico? I am going there on a two week fact finding trip in October. I am flying in to Guadalajara and plan to spend about a week in Lake Chapala area and then go to San Miguel De Allende for about a week. This should coincide with the day of the dead celebration which is a big...
  21. Kitty

    Working For My Daughter?

    I wouldn't work with mine I wouldn't work with or for my kids in less time it takes to warm a chair we would be in an argument and they would be wrong :rant: They are the most aggravating bunch, they can't even stand each other except for short periods of time before the wives have to...
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    Costa Rica

    Statistics and lies 99% literacy in the U.S. ? What B.S. unless you count literaacy as being able to sign your name and read a Mc Donald's menu. I met a lot of people who can't read well enough to function without help, right here in the good old U.S.A. I hate it when someone pulls my leg...
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    Mexico

    Mexican Law There ought to be a boot camp for people moving to Mexico so they can come up to speed on the ins and outs of living there. One thing about Mexico is they don't sue for the large ammounts that are the norm north of the border. However, Mexican Law is as different as the country...
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    Mexico

    Driving in LA I think driving in LA is as bad as Mexico with the road rage drivers with guns the huge amount of traffic trying to go as fast as they can, Police car chases and other stuff. The danger is there in both places. I was driving in Tucson one night and when I came to a red light...
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    Mexico

    Mexian driving Driving in Mexico is ...... well different.... some of the ways of driving there are to our gringo minds a bit strange to say the least. To signal it is ok to pass them Mexican drivers will turn on their left turn signal this is confusing to Gringos they think the driver is...
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