UnrealizedPotential
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I think I would steer someone in this situation towards Dave Ramsey. While I certainly don’t agree with all of his philosophy, I think he’s a pretty good resource for someone who’s literally starting at square one. The broker/IRA seems more like step 5 or 6, when he really needs to start at step one.
However, please don’t take this as a criticism of your actions, which were very kind. Most would simply respond with something like, “spend less than you make” or “get a better job.”
It's just a very difficult situation in which to try and help someone who is really behind the 8 ball. My impression talking with him was he probably wouldn't have done anything even if I gave him the name of a financial adviser. I don't know of any I would trust in the area.
Someone would have to do everything for him to get him started. I mean everything. I wrote down some steps he could take. It's up to him. Like others said, I can't do it for him. Pointing out the obvious like get a better job or spend less isn't really helpful to him. I'm afraid he's gone as far in life career wise as he is capable.
Spend less he already knows. He doesn't know how to invest what he could save, and he could save very little is my feeling. Almost an impossible situation, but I tried. I wish him luck.
Dave Ramsey I don't care for. So I never thought of him. It's hard for me to understand procrastinators as I am not one. However that doesn't mean I can't sympathize with his situation. I feel for him. I just didn't know how he could go on in a good way without trying to just lay it out for him and he can go straight to the source. He didn't seem like the type to me that had enough interest or willpower to listen to a Dave Ramsey.
He needed help and he needed it now. He knew he was in trouble and he reached out for help.
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