leftyfrizzell1963
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My new son-in-law asked for some advice.
Last month his grandmother passed away suddenly. The grandmother was divorced and had not remarried. The grandmother had 2 children, a grown daughter, lets call her "Susie", and a son who also passed away suddenly 3 years ago. The son, before his own passing, had married, had 4 children (1 of them being my son-in-law), and then divorced.
Unless stated otherwise in a will, I believe the daughter is entitled to 50% of the estate, and the 4 children of the son are entitled to the other 50% of the estate.
Since the death of the grandmother, there has been no mention of a will. There has been no mention of money, assets, estate, etc. There has been no communication whatsoever. It has been 1 month.
There is more to it. The daughter, Susie, was living with the grandmother at the time and has been for some time, and is unemployed/underemployed. Susie has a storied past with many bad decisions over the years, and at some point moved back in with her mom. It is presumed the grandmother was supporting her daughter to some unknown extent. I don't know any other details. The concern is the daughter will believe all the assets are hers and will continue to live as she has been doing off those assets, and/or squander the money.
He asked what he should do about inquiring about the status of the estate. My advice was to wait another month or 2 to allow time for grieving and people to adjust, then ask his Aunt (Susie) on the status/situation, and what is going on. I'm not sure that's great advice. Obviously the fear is that by waiting too long, the money could be gone, or otherwise untraceable.
The amount of the estate is not known. Several numbers have been thrown around. Some numbers were of a significant amount. I also suggested to my son-in-law if it is not a significant amount of money, then let the daughter have it all. But if it is a significant amount of money, then he is entitled to his share and should pursue it.
Let's suppose the initial conversation with Aunt Susie goes nowhere. What should he do? Family meeting? Lawyer? Goverment? something else?
Thanks in Advance!
Last month his grandmother passed away suddenly. The grandmother was divorced and had not remarried. The grandmother had 2 children, a grown daughter, lets call her "Susie", and a son who also passed away suddenly 3 years ago. The son, before his own passing, had married, had 4 children (1 of them being my son-in-law), and then divorced.
Unless stated otherwise in a will, I believe the daughter is entitled to 50% of the estate, and the 4 children of the son are entitled to the other 50% of the estate.
Since the death of the grandmother, there has been no mention of a will. There has been no mention of money, assets, estate, etc. There has been no communication whatsoever. It has been 1 month.
There is more to it. The daughter, Susie, was living with the grandmother at the time and has been for some time, and is unemployed/underemployed. Susie has a storied past with many bad decisions over the years, and at some point moved back in with her mom. It is presumed the grandmother was supporting her daughter to some unknown extent. I don't know any other details. The concern is the daughter will believe all the assets are hers and will continue to live as she has been doing off those assets, and/or squander the money.
He asked what he should do about inquiring about the status of the estate. My advice was to wait another month or 2 to allow time for grieving and people to adjust, then ask his Aunt (Susie) on the status/situation, and what is going on. I'm not sure that's great advice. Obviously the fear is that by waiting too long, the money could be gone, or otherwise untraceable.
The amount of the estate is not known. Several numbers have been thrown around. Some numbers were of a significant amount. I also suggested to my son-in-law if it is not a significant amount of money, then let the daughter have it all. But if it is a significant amount of money, then he is entitled to his share and should pursue it.
Let's suppose the initial conversation with Aunt Susie goes nowhere. What should he do? Family meeting? Lawyer? Goverment? something else?
Thanks in Advance!