Don't get me wrong, every gift (small and big) was appreciated and everyone knew it collectively but it was not expressed individually.It does not sound weird at all. Essentially weddings were a big party. The guests could give what they wanted, or could afford, or nothing at all. But somebody had to bankroll that wedding - I assume they got thanked.
I was not married in my town but still we had 300 guests.Did you get married that way? It must have been a huge event.
Indeed. If fact everyone supported every wedding they attend according to their ability. It was more of a pay it forward based sentiment. One didn't expect anything back other than a feeling you got knowing that you did your part.The newlyweds likely went to the next couples marriage ceremony and gave what they could, expecting nothing in return. In a town of 10,000 that works, and is a wonderful thing.