41 Yr Old Future Retiree with 4 Kids
Age - 41
Desired Retirement Age - Yesterday? Still figuring this out. I enjoy work and have a very flexible job that allows me to have a lot of fun, so I'm not terribly rushed. Thinking 50-55, which is 9-14 years from now. One thing I'm struggling with is how much do I want to leave for my kids? I could retire now, but it wouldn't be the retirement I want and it would leave nothing for my kids now or when I'm gone.
Assets -
Income - $135k salary plus annual bonuses
Expenses - ~$10k/mo (two mortgages make half of this. No other debt. Charity, food, gas, entertainment account for the rest)
Spouse - Married. She is 3 years younger. Currently not working.
Kids - 4 kids aged 7 to 15.
Relevant Location - Not sure what this means, but I'm in the Seattle/Tacoma area.
I've been reading the forum for about two weeks. I've read a lot of the FAQs/Stickied posts. I'm not ready to be baptized into the FIRE church, but I'm starting to believe.
I was fortunate to sell my startup this year and made some money. My wife is extremely anti-debt, so I lost the battle of investing the money and it instead went into paying down our home. I have an earn-out clause that pays out in a few years and will be worth a multiple of EBITDA - meaning it could be worth anywhere from $0 to a few million. I've included it under Assets above at a value of $1M for now. The startup ate much of my retirement portfolio. Combine that with my wife's aversion to debt and we are very heavy on the real estate side and light on cash/securities.
We are starting to max out our IRAs again. From what I've read so far it looks like Roth is the more popular choice. I won't do that this year because I'm in the top tax bracket. We'll stick to the traditional and then contribute to the Roth when we can (or do the backdoor conversions if we're not eligible).
I don't have too many questions right now. I wanted to introduce myself so I have a post to reference when I do start asking questions - hopefully saving me the trouble of repeating all of this info. I also wanted to say thanks for all the great info. It's been helpful to see all the different approaches and though processes that each person uses.
As I build out my retirement spreadsheet, the biggest question marks to me are around insurance. I won't have any work sponsored plans if I retire early. I also won't be able to touch my retirement accounts or SS for years, so that could be a big expense.
My thinking right now is that we will sell our primary home and put the equity into securities. It will be $1.5M - $2M in equity when I retire. Combine that with my earn-out money and I'm hoping to be sitting on ~$3M cash. I will have the rental home paid for, so there's an additional $4k - $4.5k/mo. We're considering buying a home or condo in FL now, while rates are so low, and using that as a retirement homebase. Quick Zillow searches show many places under $400k that would be great. Trying to be aware of things like high HOA fees down there and would appreciate any tips from others who have retired in FL.
I intend to spend a lot of time traveling in retirement. Grandkids may change those plans, but for now I dream of renting an AirBnB in Greece and spending the summer there. Then moving over to Thailand for a few months, and make my way to all the places I'd like to see. Occasional visits to the homebase in FL as well as traveling to see family.
I would love to hear from others who travel a lot in retirement (especially those with larger families). How is it working for you? Unexpected expenses I should consider? Is my math way off? I see places available for $1,200 - $$$$ a month in many places. Buying groceries at the local stores and just experiencing the culture shouldn't be too much more than staying in FL, right? Obviously we'll spend more money on sight seeing, possibly more on transportation since we won't own a car, (airfare) etc. But, overall I don't see it costing that much to have extended stays in places all over the world. Maybe this deserves its own thread?
Age - 41
Desired Retirement Age - Yesterday? Still figuring this out. I enjoy work and have a very flexible job that allows me to have a lot of fun, so I'm not terribly rushed. Thinking 50-55, which is 9-14 years from now. One thing I'm struggling with is how much do I want to leave for my kids? I could retire now, but it wouldn't be the retirement I want and it would leave nothing for my kids now or when I'm gone.
Assets -
- Solo 401k - $55k (paying back $250/mo, I owe about $30k)
- tIRA - $10k
- Primary Residence Equity - $1M
- Rental Property - $800k value ($450k mortgage). Collect $3,600/mo in rent - $2,300 monthly payment
- Private Company Equity - ~$1M (see note below)
- Cash - $55k ($35k allocated to taxes)
Income - $135k salary plus annual bonuses
Expenses - ~$10k/mo (two mortgages make half of this. No other debt. Charity, food, gas, entertainment account for the rest)
Spouse - Married. She is 3 years younger. Currently not working.
Kids - 4 kids aged 7 to 15.
Relevant Location - Not sure what this means, but I'm in the Seattle/Tacoma area.
I've been reading the forum for about two weeks. I've read a lot of the FAQs/Stickied posts. I'm not ready to be baptized into the FIRE church, but I'm starting to believe.
I was fortunate to sell my startup this year and made some money. My wife is extremely anti-debt, so I lost the battle of investing the money and it instead went into paying down our home. I have an earn-out clause that pays out in a few years and will be worth a multiple of EBITDA - meaning it could be worth anywhere from $0 to a few million. I've included it under Assets above at a value of $1M for now. The startup ate much of my retirement portfolio. Combine that with my wife's aversion to debt and we are very heavy on the real estate side and light on cash/securities.
We are starting to max out our IRAs again. From what I've read so far it looks like Roth is the more popular choice. I won't do that this year because I'm in the top tax bracket. We'll stick to the traditional and then contribute to the Roth when we can (or do the backdoor conversions if we're not eligible).
I don't have too many questions right now. I wanted to introduce myself so I have a post to reference when I do start asking questions - hopefully saving me the trouble of repeating all of this info. I also wanted to say thanks for all the great info. It's been helpful to see all the different approaches and though processes that each person uses.
As I build out my retirement spreadsheet, the biggest question marks to me are around insurance. I won't have any work sponsored plans if I retire early. I also won't be able to touch my retirement accounts or SS for years, so that could be a big expense.
My thinking right now is that we will sell our primary home and put the equity into securities. It will be $1.5M - $2M in equity when I retire. Combine that with my earn-out money and I'm hoping to be sitting on ~$3M cash. I will have the rental home paid for, so there's an additional $4k - $4.5k/mo. We're considering buying a home or condo in FL now, while rates are so low, and using that as a retirement homebase. Quick Zillow searches show many places under $400k that would be great. Trying to be aware of things like high HOA fees down there and would appreciate any tips from others who have retired in FL.
I intend to spend a lot of time traveling in retirement. Grandkids may change those plans, but for now I dream of renting an AirBnB in Greece and spending the summer there. Then moving over to Thailand for a few months, and make my way to all the places I'd like to see. Occasional visits to the homebase in FL as well as traveling to see family.
I would love to hear from others who travel a lot in retirement (especially those with larger families). How is it working for you? Unexpected expenses I should consider? Is my math way off? I see places available for $1,200 - $$$$ a month in many places. Buying groceries at the local stores and just experiencing the culture shouldn't be too much more than staying in FL, right? Obviously we'll spend more money on sight seeing, possibly more on transportation since we won't own a car, (airfare) etc. But, overall I don't see it costing that much to have extended stays in places all over the world. Maybe this deserves its own thread?
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