How many more people would even own a home if not for a mortgage? the reality is, for most Americans walking into a realtor an plunking down 200K in cash is not an option. I won't even think about how long it would take my kids to try and save for a decent house where we live. So for the average Joe it's not about leaving your cash somewhere to make money. heck, I know plenty of folks who struggled to even get the 20% down needed for a conventional mortgage.
Now I also think having been raised in NYC, I never knew many people who lived in the eternal pursuit of owning a home, then I married a European who lovingly said all the time, "the world works to live while Americans live to work".
What I am finding is that for me is retirement is a "continuous" process, especially when one retires early so don't get discourage if next year you are still figuring out what retirement life would be. Even "retirement" comes with preconceived notions. lol, I use to hear how everyone would travel when they retire. Most of my friends and myself who have retired really don't travel any more than they did before retirement. at most 1 extra trip. When I got my "please go away" papers from mega corp, I looked forward to finally pursuing my passion/dream of owning my own bakery. then I did the investigation and found out exactly how much work I was going to be putting in and that "dream" and said, "Oh H%$%LL no", lol now I have a part time gig at a bakery. best of both worlds. I pretty much make my own schedule and enjoy the baking while letting some one else be the boss.
for me the ability to have "choices" is really the peace of mind. If I want to pay off my mortgage I can, if I decide to hang onto it for another year (I usually reevaluate every year) I can. I still have visions of owning a house on the beach down south some where so that will be another choice down the road (do I downsize and sell this one?? hang onto it and be a snowbird??) You really don't have to have it all figured out by the time you leave.
I struggled to get my first home, made a lot of sacrifices, then I moved into a bigger home, was not needed but got used to it, filled it with lots of 'stuff'......funny how life can be can driven by illusions, we get there and wonder.
I have very fond memories of my college days, no responsibilities, parents still alive, hope for the future. Did it pan out? Mostly. I recall an old study concluding those 55 are the happiest. I also remember how unhappy I was in my 30s and 40s, now that I am here, I can say that study is mostly true.