Hello to everyone. Have long enjoyed the very insightful and useful discussions here.
By way of introduction, I am 60. Single, no dependent. I have worked for this law firm for the last few years. I enjoyed my work, though not working with all my colleagues. I was unhappy enough with my firm that I worked with a headhunter and on the verge of landing a very well paying job in a new state with no state income tax.
Things fell apart for me when one of the deals I was handling got botched. The clients were not happy. While I can dispute the whole sequence of events, my alleged fault and the actual damage, the firm decided one some had to fall on the sword to placate the clients. I was suspended briefly and now demoted to handling the work of junior members of the firm ( doing research and drafting briefs) but no longer allowed to handle any deals. My compensation was cut to reflect the diminished role. On top of that, the firm reported the whole misadventure to the state controlling authority, alleging malpractice I think I may be placed on probation, but there are promises of working my way back, but it would take a couple of years while I am in the probationary purgatory.
I know I am good at what I do and had been enjoying my line of work ( the challenge and the power?) , and what happened was the firm overreacting to protect itself. My question to myself is whether I should put myself through the humiliations and efforts to work my way back, especially at my age. The job I was about to get fell through when my firms took the actions it did. The probation and the ill will of the firm will probably follow me professionally forever, so any future professional opportunity will most likely never be the same. While I was placed on leave, I found that there are many other things that I am enjoying doing (the many books I stashed away and wanting to read; music, museum) , and work and my profession might just not as important as a piece my future course in life.
Looking at where I am today. I am quite well set up for the rest of my life financially if I do not work for another day. I have lived well below my means, and material things had never held any interest for me. I can never exhaust what I have now with my present life style. If I had started on that other job, I would have a decent size estate. The increased worth would only serve to keep score. ( Would that mean anything though when you are gone? ) I have no heir and I was thinking about passing on my estate to some charitable trust. Although I still have not identified any cause that interest me at this point. And after what I had been through, I wonder whether I am still as charitable as I had felt.
I hope I did not convey an impression of a bitter and grandiose a-hole. Any feedback wisdom is most welcomed.
By way of introduction, I am 60. Single, no dependent. I have worked for this law firm for the last few years. I enjoyed my work, though not working with all my colleagues. I was unhappy enough with my firm that I worked with a headhunter and on the verge of landing a very well paying job in a new state with no state income tax.
Things fell apart for me when one of the deals I was handling got botched. The clients were not happy. While I can dispute the whole sequence of events, my alleged fault and the actual damage, the firm decided one some had to fall on the sword to placate the clients. I was suspended briefly and now demoted to handling the work of junior members of the firm ( doing research and drafting briefs) but no longer allowed to handle any deals. My compensation was cut to reflect the diminished role. On top of that, the firm reported the whole misadventure to the state controlling authority, alleging malpractice I think I may be placed on probation, but there are promises of working my way back, but it would take a couple of years while I am in the probationary purgatory.
I know I am good at what I do and had been enjoying my line of work ( the challenge and the power?) , and what happened was the firm overreacting to protect itself. My question to myself is whether I should put myself through the humiliations and efforts to work my way back, especially at my age. The job I was about to get fell through when my firms took the actions it did. The probation and the ill will of the firm will probably follow me professionally forever, so any future professional opportunity will most likely never be the same. While I was placed on leave, I found that there are many other things that I am enjoying doing (the many books I stashed away and wanting to read; music, museum) , and work and my profession might just not as important as a piece my future course in life.
Looking at where I am today. I am quite well set up for the rest of my life financially if I do not work for another day. I have lived well below my means, and material things had never held any interest for me. I can never exhaust what I have now with my present life style. If I had started on that other job, I would have a decent size estate. The increased worth would only serve to keep score. ( Would that mean anything though when you are gone? ) I have no heir and I was thinking about passing on my estate to some charitable trust. Although I still have not identified any cause that interest me at this point. And after what I had been through, I wonder whether I am still as charitable as I had felt.
I hope I did not convey an impression of a bitter and grandiose a-hole. Any feedback wisdom is most welcomed.