Thank you, MooreBonds, for your helpful response to my question.
Things have been strange from the beginning:
Trusts, I understand, are not normally public documents. Yet the trust notebook my Dad kept was taken from the house before I arrived in January of 2001 to facilitate securing a guardian, if necessary. I did secure a Xerox copy from the attorney who had it, but I don't know who gave it to him--clearly not my Dad.
I was named as the Trustee, but because I live so far from Vancouver, Washington, I was too far away to be able to handle their affairs. My cousin who lives in Vancouver suggested I consult his attorney, and his attorney recommended the Guardian which we used. I personally believe that the guardian, who was also a registered nurse, was admirably suited to help my parents, and I believe she did a good job at caring for their needs. She kept them for as long as it was practicable living in their own home, which was their much expressed desire.
I don't know if there were any shenanigans, but the guardian did insist that I relinquish control of the funds in the trust and allow control to be transferred to her. I refused to relinquish the control vested in me as Trustee, suggesting instead she simply inform me of what she needed and I would comply by granting permission for her to access funds as needed. She would not agree, and she secured the action of the probate court or whatever court it is in Washington State, and the judge ordered that the funds be turned over to her. She went to the institutions where they were (banks, Edward Jones, insurance companies). Those institutions stood by me, and said I should be wary of allowing this to happen. The court came back and ordered the funds be moved regardless of whether I, as trustee, desired this or not.
I alerted the guardian that since both sides of my parents' family had lived to a great age, that she would need to take care not to spend down my parents' estate too fast or she would have no money left to work with.
Some things in the will, like sterling silver promised my wife, reached us in a very incomplete state, though it had been complete when I and my son were there in 2001. Same with a very expensive set of fine china. Same, we just learned this week, with a rosewood bedroom suite. I don't fault or accuse the guardian for these happenings, but surely the Lord Himself knows where those things are, for we did not get them (or got incomplete), and He says those responsible are in big trouble (Zechariah 5:3-5).
When the guardian told me this past week that she thought the estate would probably now go to probate, she is currently investigating what must or shall be done, I suggested to her (I am not legally trained or knowledgeable, though) that the reason my parents set up the revocable family trust and appointed me the trustee with durable power of attorney was to avoid the necessity for probate.
I would think that the guardian could simply complete any federal income tax forms for my mother for last year and this (income may be small enough from Social Security, etc. to very much limit any possible tax due), then close the estate by cutting four checks, one each for the four beneficiaries/inheritors, whatever we might be called, and be totally done with it.
Since there is no one contesting any part of the trust or will, and there are no debts owed to creditors since she has paid the bills all along and has rendered an accounting to the court and once or twice in 8 years to us, this would seem to be a simple proposition.
If the guardian did indeed, at the judge's ordering on her behalf, take the funds out of the trust, does that require this go to probate court for settlement now, contrary to the purposes of the original provisions of the revocable living trust?
If so, it would appear that revocable trusts are absolutely useless instruments providing families no protection whatsoever. Though I spent all afternoon searching on the Internet via Google, I found not a single reference to any protective effect of a revocable trust in this circumstance, a circumstance which I would suppose is very common or frequent. All references I saw to guardians were references to guardians appointed to care for minors should both parents pass away, and no references to the consequences of parents needing a guardian because of gradual incompetency due to aging and the onset of dementia. Both of my parents lived to their mid 90s.
Thank you again for responding.