Hello From Beautiful San Diego

. I know that having an all wheel drive vehicle in San Diego is very important because people, in general, do not know how to drive (my Audi has saved my life on more than one occasion. I grew up in Los Angeles where people, in general, do know how to drive.)

Thanks.
Susan


Susan ,I also think a safe car is a most . I was just surprized by how much it costs to repair your car. I drive a Camry Solara with 89,000 miles on it and except for brakes , a front end alignment , tires & oil changes it's been trouble free .
 
A 2007 poll* on the forum indicated more than 75% of the 267 who responded had net worths in the seven figure range. Add the fact that many also have very nice pension benefits, and I think it shows you are attempting to make a "case-in-point" where the evidence does not offer support. ;)

*http://www.early-retirement.org/forums/f28/net-worth-2007-a-24852.html

I had a different perspective on pretty much everything covered. "Many" of us retire plenty early, with plenty of money and live very pleasing lives. Many of us also could or would work but financial independence combined with preferring to share our lives with our friends and family rather than a corporation makes that somewhat unappealing.

Also, it seems I accidentally Ignored the forum where we all sit around the campfire making each other feel better about our lives of poverty. Whats the name of that again?

I suppose I should just get used to the fact that some posts are going to be lengthy, yet entirely fact free. :rolleyes::)
 
$304 - HOA
$142 - Property taxes
$166 - Auto/house/jewelry insurance
$735 - Mortgage (will be paid off in 2034)
$774 - Second (which will be paid off on 12/1/2009)
$250 - Car repairs (average for two Audi vehicles)
$108 - Cable
$100 - San Diego Gas & Electric (sometimes lower, sometimes higher)
$600 - Gas (yes, that's right, for premium gas at $4.50/gallon)
$100 - medical insurance
$200 - parking at work
$400 - food out
$600 - food in/paper products/shampoos/other
$400 - Cash for misc stuff (sometimes lower, sometimes higher)
$150 - hair
$1000 - entertainment/clothing/gifts/other (sometimes lower, sometimes higher) for a total of
$6,029 per month

A lot of your expenses are car related. If you weren't working, they would go down, correct?
 
A 2007 poll* on the forum indicated more than 75% of the 267 who responded had net worths in the seven figure range. Add the fact that many also have very nice pension benefits, and I think it shows you are attempting to make a "case-in-point" where the evidence does not offer support. ;)

*http://www.early-retirement.org/forums/f28/net-worth-2007-a-24852.html
There was actually a more recent one. Still, the results are from those members who specifically chose to answer the question, meaning not a "representative sample."

When comparing the number of people participating in the poll, as a percentage of total members of the forum, you'll see that it is way less than even 1%... So, you couldn't really conclude all that much from that sample group.
 
There was actually a more recent one. Still, the results are from those members who specifically chose to answer the question, meaning not a "representative sample."

When comparing the number of people participating in the poll, as a percentage of total members of the forum, you'll see that it is way less than even 1%... So, you couldn't really conclude all that much from that sample group.

I'm not allowed to make conclusions from reading the forum but you are. I think I see a disconnect here. ;)
 
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I know that having an all wheel drive vehicle in San Diego is very important because people, in general, do not know how to drive (my Audi has saved my life on more than one occasion. I grew up in Los Angeles where people, in general, do know how to drive.)

LOL, so I missed this earlier, I too grew up in L.A. and now live in San Diego and I have the exact opposite take! Everyone drives 90+mph everywhere in L.A. unless it's bumper to bumper, then you can count on the shoulder having a bunch of #%$^!@ driving on it, only to cut in front of you when the see a cop, all the while using sign language to tell you "You're number 1!". I used to deal with L.A. drivers, but now I'm out of practice. I also don't remember the last drive by shooting in San Diego or road rage gun battle. When I have to go up there to visit Mom, as soon as I see that "Welcome to L.A. County, population 9 brazillion" I get a headache.
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Going back to read the OP, then the reply by CaseInPoint, I saw that I missed something the first time.

The issue here is that some people are trying to see

a) If it would be possible to retire early, YET also keep their spending levels the same as when they still draw a salary.

b) If there has to be cutback, then it appears to the same people that it may be a miserable life in poverty.

Am I correct?

To answer the question a) one has to differentiate one's income level, and one's expenses. Most of people who ER limit their expenses, so that 1) they can save, and 2) to limit their spending level so that ER becomes feasible.

Many of younger members here, for example Firedreamer and Marquette, have told us how they have been able to save much of their income. But I will take myself as an example. In a previous good year, my main salary at a megacorp plus some outside moon lighting work earned me close to $200K that year. Ignore my wife salary for now. If we conditioned ourselves to spend all that money (or what was left after tax), we would need $5M in order to retire (at 4% withdrawal rate). But if we spend all of what we make, how do we save up $5M?

So, obviously, reducing expenses serves two purposes: a) allows you to save and b) reduces your expenses so that ER becomes feasible.

As for the feeling that the reduced expenses will make you feel miserable, that is a very personal thing. I do not feel deprived. Most of the members do not think so, either.

So, to answer the OP and CaseInPoint, it is true that it is VERY tough to be able to retire early, AND have income (read expenses) level same as when you work. Short of winning the lottery, or being able to hit the jackpot on the stock market roulette, or inherit a lot of money, I do not see how.

If you want to maintain high expenses as if you were working, in most cases you would have to work. It's that simple.

What I have learned is this: some people want to work and spend, and some people do not want to work and are willing to cut their expenses as the price to pay. Neither group should pick on the other. If you want to spend and not work, please tell me how (no illegal, nor immoral answers please) :).


PS. Forget about ER. How about just R? Does any pension plan pay 100% COLA of full-time pay?

And I found myself in a subgroup that is willing to work if it is part-time, interesting, well-paid and no BS. In bad economic times, that may be non-existent, so I am preparing myself to join the ER group in a moment's notice.
 
Why not? That's what I've done... :)

Exceptionally well.

a) If it would be possible to retire early, YET also keep their spending levels the same as when they still draw a salary.

IIRC the guy who thinks we all live in poverty wants to spend a quarter million a year, have a house full of hired help and so forth. Anything less is grovelling in the dirt looking for bugs to eat.

And he's most welcome to the associated long work hours to pay for that, and its probably unsustainable without working.

I spent all morning at the beach with my 3 year old and the afternoon at our farm share picking up our vegetables. My son told me all about his wife Angelica who drives an SUV and will go to the fire station with him to help him put out the fires when they call him up. She has black hair by the way.

Priceless.

Now, I could have spent the day in a conference room arguing with people over what name we should call a program, or having some VP tell me I have to do a project in half the time it'll take to do a decent job, with half the money and half the people needed.

Tell ya what, I think I'm going to have to think it over a while. I'm just going to sink into the couch, suck up the air conditioning and take a little nap in my mcmansion in one of Fortune magazines 50 best places to live and wait for my wife to drive her Lexus home from her shopping trip and wake me up in time for dinner. :cool:

Ahhh...poverty...
 
I spent all morning at the beach with my 3 year old and the afternoon at our farm share picking up our vegetables. My son told me all about his wife Angelica who drives an SUV and will go to the fire station with him to help him put out the fires when they call him up. She has black hair by the way.

Priceless.

Now, I could have spent the day in a conference room arguing with people over what name we should call a program, or having some VP tell me I have to do a project in half the time it'll take to do a decent job, with half the money and half the people needed.

Tell ya what, I think I'm going to have to think it over a while. I'm just going to sink into the couch, suck up the air conditioning and take a little nap in my mcmansion in one of Fortune magazines 50 best places to live and wait for my wife to drive her Lexus home from her shopping trip and wake me up in time for dinner. :cool:

Ahhh...poverty...

It's a rough life!!

Love hearing about your day. There's nothing more priceless than spending time with your toddler. They grow up so fast, and as you mentioned, soon he will be in school.

When Christina was that age, she wanted to be a fireman too. But she was a little insecure about leaving home, so I told her I would live in the house right next door to the fire station, and she could come see me any time she felt like it. Every day I would bring home-made cookies to her and all the other firemen. She thought that would be just fine. :2funny:
 
Exceptionally well.



IIRC the guy who thinks we all live in poverty wants to spend a quarter million a year, have a house full of hired help and so forth. Anything less is grovelling in the dirt looking for bugs to eat.

And he's most welcome to the associated long work hours to pay for that, and its probably unsustainable without working.

I spent all morning at the beach with my 3 year old and the afternoon at our farm share picking up our vegetables. My son told me all about his wife Angelica who drives an SUV and will go to the fire station with him to help him put out the fires when they call him up. She has black hair by the way.

Priceless.

Now, I could have spent the day in a conference room arguing with people over what name we should call a program, or having some VP tell me I have to do a project in half the time it'll take to do a decent job, with half the money and half the people needed.

Tell ya what, I think I'm going to have to think it over a while. I'm just going to sink into the couch, suck up the air conditioning and take a little nap in my mcmansion in one of Fortune magazines 50 best places to live and wait for my wife to drive her Lexus home from her shopping trip and wake me up in time for dinner. :cool:

Ahhh...poverty...

And just to add to the point, I could care less about his lexus and his McMansion - I'm green with envy that CFB spent the day at the beach with his 3 year old while I did exactly what he described about office life above today. :rant:

DW got to spend the day with our kids, and just about every other day too. I could make more than I do now (low six figures) if I was willing to work crazy hours in a different career ladder. But I took a job with every other Friday off and 5 weeks vacation a year. I'll never get these days with Tori and Olivia again.
 
In response to eridanus, yes, a lot of my expenses related to my car would go down in retirement; however, the car expense of $250/mo for two German made vehicles, both over 5 years old (one is over 5 years and the other is over 8 years) is about right. Last December, I paid about $3,800 for some major work on my car (as it has two turbos, it heats up a lot and can cause issues that cars without two turbos would never happen). Between tires, brakes, oil changes, etc., every 5000 miles for two vehicles out of warranty, every time you take it in, it's about $250-$1,000, depending on what is the problem. If there is something really wrong, it can be much more, as in last December. I am waiting until after I retire to buy a new car as my car sits in a parking lot and gets tons of door dings, etc. However, I'm going to be more sensible and probably buy a Toyota.

In response to laurencewill, driving in Los Angeles, for me, is much more fun because you can drive fast. About 12 years ago, I used to race cars as a hobby...was officially licensed and raced for the SCCA in Southern California. Boy, was that amazing, having fun with the boys. Yes, I know, people try to run you off the road for kicks, you can the finger all of the time, but driving in those diamond lanes at 90-100 mph is great, as long as there is not too much traffic, about 2:00 am in the morning!!! I'm actually a very safe driver, don't cut in and out of lanes (like people in San Diego do) and I don't drive 40 mph in the fast lane (like people in San Diego do)...and use my blinker, a foreign concept for San Diego drivers...:D

Regarding retirement, yes, I'm going to be one who does not want to work and am willing to cut my expenses for not having to put up with the BS and complaining and unrealistic expectations. I'm tired and I want to go out and play, my way...as I said before, if I need to work part time to fund my fun, then so be it!!! I looooovvvvvveeeeee fun and hate BS, so fun wins everytime.

Susan
 
In response to eridanus, yes, a lot of my expenses related to my car would go down in retirement; however, the car expense of $250/mo for two German made vehicles, both over 5 years old (one is over 5 years and the other is over 8 years) is about right. Last December, I paid about $3,800 for some major work on my car (as it has two turbos, it heats up a lot and can cause issues that cars without two turbos would never happen). Between tires, brakes, oil changes, etc., every 5000 miles for two vehicles out of warranty, every time you take it in, it's about $250-$1,000, depending on what is the problem. If there is something really wrong, it can be much more, as in last December. I am waiting until after I retire to buy a new car as my car sits in a parking lot and gets tons of door dings, etc. However, I'm going to be more sensible and probably buy a Toyota.

In response to laurencewill, driving in Los Angeles, for me, is much more fun because you can drive fast. About 12 years ago, I used to race cars as a hobby...was officially licensed and raced for the SCCA in Southern California. Boy, was that amazing, having fun with the boys. Yes, I know, people try to run you off the road for kicks, you can the finger all of the time, but driving in those diamond lanes at 90-100 mph is great, as long as there is not too much traffic, about 2:00 am in the morning!!! I'm actually a very safe driver, don't cut in and out of lanes (like people in San Diego do) and I don't drive 40 mph in the fast lane (like people in San Diego do)...and use my blinker, a foreign concept for San Diego drivers...:D

Regarding retirement, yes, I'm going to be one who does not want to work and am willing to cut my expenses for not having to put up with the BS and complaining and unrealistic expectations. I'm tired and I want to go out and play, my way...as I said before, if I need to work part time to fund my fun, then so be it!!! I looooovvvvvveeeeee fun and hate BS, so fun wins everytime.

Susan

LOL! Well that explains it, NASCAR driver! I suspect when somebody is driving 70 in front of you it feels like 40. ;) Like I said, I didn't really notice the race track of death feeling of L.A. freeways when I lived there (Northridge specifically), but after living in slower, more polite San Diego for the last decade, driving up there makes my teeth grit!

Just one bone to pick, are you saying L.A. drivers use their blinkers?? Only if you mean hand signals! :D
 
lawrencewill: did I say that LA drivers use their blinkers:confused:? heh:confused:? Well, they keep you guessing, just to make sure you're awake!!! Yes, I am your nightmare in your rear view mirror...just keep going faster or slow down really fast, because I'm going to pass you, either on my terms or on my terms; it's your choice...lol

Just kidding...yes, I know a lot of LA drivers are fast but inpolite and San Diego drivers are slow and polite, but if you have a fast car like mine...it doesn't matter!!!:D

You know the best thing I ever did was learn how to race cars because it taught me to be a very defensive driver and patient, which a lot of people, no matter where you drive, never learn. And to be quite honest, the traffic in San Diego is getting bad (not as bad as LA, I agree), but I'm not getting so many speeding tickets as I used to because I can't drive as fast (and be safe). And, I don't drive 90-100 miles per hour in San Diego because I would probably kill myself. If you drive less than 90 mph in the diamond lanes in LA, you will get killed for sure.

Susan
 
lawrencewill: did I say that LA drivers use their blinkers:confused:? heh:confused:? Well, they keep you guessing, just to make sure you're awake!!! Yes, I am your nightmare in your rear view mirror...just keep going faster or slow down really fast, because I'm going to pass you, either on my terms or on my terms; it's your choice...lol

Just kidding...yes, I know a lot of LA drivers are fast but inpolite and San Diego drivers are slow and polite, but if you have a fast car like mine...it doesn't matter!!!:D

You know the best thing I ever did was learn how to race cars because it taught me to be a very defensive driver and patient, which a lot of people, no matter where you drive, never learn. And to be quite honest, the traffic in San Diego is getting bad (not as bad as LA, I agree), but I'm not getting so many speeding tickets as I used to because I can't drive as fast (and be safe). And, I don't drive 90-100 miles per hour in San Diego because I would probably kill myself. If you drive less than 90 mph in the diamond lanes in LA, you will get killed for sure.

Susan

I'm getting tired of the clutch here in San Diego now, it's true. Camp Pendleton protected us from L.A. and Orange for some time, but the morphing of San Angeles was inevitable! My turbo Passat was fun in L.A., the Volvo not so much!
 
I'm green with envy that CFB spent the day at the beach with his 3 year old while I did exactly what he described about office life above today. :rant:

Good thing I didnt lay it on then. Before we went up to the farm I whipped up a little osso bucco and dropped it in the slow cooker and when we got back, washed up and threw together some garlic mashed from garlic and red taters that had been in the ground an hour earlier, along with a mixed green salad of fresh cherry tomatoes, lemon cucumbers, and mixed baby salad greens...some arugula, some radish sprouts and some baby turnip greens. I'm afraid the produce aged almost a full hour before being prepared because I had to spend a good 30 minutes with my son while he fed the farm horses some apples that we picked together off our trees earlier in the day.

This evening as we sat nibbling on our dinner and watching our 65" high definition set with HD satellite feeds sporked into a 1000 hour high def digital video recorder, I continued to ponder on our wretched poverty stricken lives.

I'm think i'm going to go jump out of a window now, but its going to be the new kitchen garden window we put in last month, and thats maybe a 4' drop to the foot or so of fresh redwood compost I pushed under there last week.

So I'm afraid that I'll be okay and probably posting again tomorrow, shortly after drinking half a pot of starbucks and noshing on some fresh bagels, cream cheese and smoked salmon along with maybe a slice or two of dry cured bacon while my dogs enjoy a couple of frozen waffles. Oh, and all of that is after sleeping in until whatever freakin time I feel like.

Then after we get to the lake for our morning beach time, we'll lay comfortably on our chairs and lament the sad, sad moments that make up our lives.

Perhaps I'll consider hiring some outside help to come rake up the disturbance in the redwood compost that I'm likely to create during my attempt to end my horrible, worthless life.

Oh, and I'm somewhat sorry for the mess we made of your thread Susan. My very best wishes for the happiest early retirement that you can muster. Welcome to the wonderful world of no longer having to serf yourself to the nameless, faceless dictators of the working world, replete with the apologists and people with weird priorities... :):angel:
 
Hmm...

I don't know if I would be envious of your 3-yr old... being of an age where I may be grandpa.

But how can you eat so much? I have to limit my calorie intake to prevent weight gain. I often tell my friends that I quit working because I cannot eat anymore. Why work if you cannot eat?
 
Oh come now, I put an angel in there. Do I need the full minimum of three for that to work?

Mmmmm...good coffee...
 
Going back to read the OP, then the reply by CaseInPoint, I saw that I missed something the first time.

The issue here is that some people are trying to see

a) If it would be possible to retire early, YET also keep their spending levels the same as when they still draw a salary.

b) If there has to be cutback, then it appears to the same people that it may be a miserable life in poverty.

Am I correct?

To answer the question a) one has to differentiate one's income level, and one's expenses. Most of people who ER limit their expenses, so that 1) they can save, and 2) to limit their spending level so that ER becomes feasible.

Many of younger members here, for example Firedreamer and Marquette, have told us how they have been able to save much of their income. But I will take myself as an example. In a previous good year, my main salary at a megacorp plus some outside moon lighting work earned me close to $200K that year. Ignore my wife salary for now. If we conditioned ourselves to spend all that money (or what was left after tax), we would need $5M in order to retire (at 4% withdrawal rate). But if we spend all of what we make, how do we save up $5M?

So, obviously, reducing expenses serves two purposes: a) allows you to save and b) reduces your expenses so that ER becomes feasible.

As for the feeling that the reduced expenses will make you feel miserable, that is a very personal thing. I do not feel deprived. Most of the members do not think so, either.

So, to answer the OP and CaseInPoint, it is true that it is VERY tough to be able to retire early, AND have income (read expenses) level same as when you work. Short of winning the lottery, or being able to hit the jackpot on the stock market roulette, or inherit a lot of money, I do not see how.

If you want to maintain high expenses as if you were working, in most cases you would have to work. It's that simple.

What I have learned is this: some people want to work and spend, and some people do not want to work and are willing to cut their expenses as the price to pay. Neither group should pick on the other. If you want to spend and not work, please tell me how (no illegal, nor immoral answers please) :).


PS. Forget about ER. How about just R? Does any pension plan pay 100% COLA of full-time pay?

And I found myself in a subgroup that is willing to work if it is part-time, interesting, well-paid and no BS. In bad economic times, that may be non-existent, so I am preparing myself to join the ER group in a moment's notice.
NW-Bound,

Kudos on a very well written post.

Often, "veteran" forum members forget that newer members want to get back to the basics and discuss the very issues that brought them here in the first place. Many new members wind up here trying to answer the questions of how much money is needed to FIRE, and what life is like for those who have done so.

For those who concluded that they can retire under certain circumstances, it's not so much that people want to spend as much as they did when fully employed. It's more a question of how much will they need to give up to be able to FIRE. It's a matter of trade-offs.

It's silly to think $11M is needed to FIRE, or else the alternative is digging in the dirt for bugs. Definitely not my opinion.

But I do see that many people have chosen to FIRE with just enough income to live on the edge of poverty. Yes, some of them may be very happy, and I sincerely congratulate them. Who am I (or anyone else) to judge that living in constant financial stress does not outweigh the benefits of escaping the work world?

Getting back to the OP asking how people cope with living on less than they are accustomed to, I would refer back to my original answer at the beginning of the thread, whether certain cute, fuzzy people here like it or not.

To the cute, fuzzy, snuggly bunny,

I'm going to guess that you want to show that I'm mistaken in saying that many early retirees live in the edge of poverty, by pointing out your own enviable lifestyle. How that shows that I'm mistaken, I'm not really sure, but I do want to congratulate you on being able to afford to buy and cook food for yourself, buy a $2,000 TV, and still have air-conditioning.

I'm very proud of you, that you've been able to afford the lifestyle of a typical stay-at-home mom, complete with cooking, cleaning, laundry, and providing non-stop day-care for a 3-tear old. Those are all honorable pursuits, and I want to give credit where credit is due. Nothing more important than properly raising a child.

And, all this success by flipping your family's primary residence at the expense of moving them each time. If that makes you happy, more power to you. Everyone should pursue whatever makes them happy. Again, I'm not totally sure how that contradicts what I wrote.
 
But I do see that many people have chosen to FIRE with just enough income to live on the edge of poverty. Yes, some of them may be very happy, and I sincerely congratulate them. Who am I (or anyone else) to judge that living in constant financial stress does not outweigh the benefits of escaping the work world?

Someone doth protest too much.
 
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