frankromano
Confused about dryer sheets
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Hi all.
I am at a crossroads in my career. We moved to DE from North Carolina 7 years ago and things at work have become unbearable (work stress, supervisor dynamics, etc). I am only sleeping about 4hrs a night from stress for the last few months and I am very unhappy. I currently make about $300K per year. Our plan was to move back to Mississippi at 50 when our daughter started college but things at work have become so bad lately that we are seriously considering returning this year. We have no desire for another temporary move, we have no personal ties to DE and all of our family is located where we would move to in Mississippi. It is where we grew up, went to college, our closest friends are still there and we routinely visit to see family.
My wife stopped working about three years ago and has no plans to return to work. We have run our expenses over the last three years with detailed spreadsheets and compared those costs to what it would cost us to live back in the South (including medical costs, property taxes, etc.) with a paid for house and we come up to $70K per year (includes vacations and additional wiggle room costs as well). In all honesty that number could be about $60K but we wanted to build in wiggle room.
Tax Filing Status: Married Filing Jointly (one daughter - 12 years old)
Tax Rate: If we retire the money would be pulled from taxable assets at capital gains rate of zero so only state tax of 5%
State of Residence: DE but thinking about moving back home to Mississippi
Age: 45 (Husband/Wife)
Current assets
Taxable Assets: 1M taxable - Vanguard SP500
Tax Deferred (401k/IRA): 1.6M - Vanguard SP500/Total Market
Cash - 400K
Assets - House ($800K - very conservative essentially what we paid for it 7 years ago. Homes in that price range in our area are sold within a week with multiple offers)
Debt - Mortgage - $265K (we put down a large down payment)
Net Worth: 3.5M
529 ($100k) (I don’t count the 529 in our NW since that is for our daughter.)
The plan would be to sell our house here and with those proceeds have $3M invested in the market (roughly 1.5M taxable/1.5M tax deferred) with a (60/40 or 70/30 mix with Vanguard), pay cash for a $300K house in the South (which would be a very nice house for that price) and have $200K left over in a cash savings account for emergencies, etc.
I use the word retire but I am sure I will do something back home. I don’t see making or really needing anything close to my current compensation back home. However, I am just not wired at this age to come to a full stop but I also don’t want to die in my 40s from stress and we have no desire to move to yet another temporary stop.
Is our plan feasible?
Thanks
I am at a crossroads in my career. We moved to DE from North Carolina 7 years ago and things at work have become unbearable (work stress, supervisor dynamics, etc). I am only sleeping about 4hrs a night from stress for the last few months and I am very unhappy. I currently make about $300K per year. Our plan was to move back to Mississippi at 50 when our daughter started college but things at work have become so bad lately that we are seriously considering returning this year. We have no desire for another temporary move, we have no personal ties to DE and all of our family is located where we would move to in Mississippi. It is where we grew up, went to college, our closest friends are still there and we routinely visit to see family.
My wife stopped working about three years ago and has no plans to return to work. We have run our expenses over the last three years with detailed spreadsheets and compared those costs to what it would cost us to live back in the South (including medical costs, property taxes, etc.) with a paid for house and we come up to $70K per year (includes vacations and additional wiggle room costs as well). In all honesty that number could be about $60K but we wanted to build in wiggle room.
Tax Filing Status: Married Filing Jointly (one daughter - 12 years old)
Tax Rate: If we retire the money would be pulled from taxable assets at capital gains rate of zero so only state tax of 5%
State of Residence: DE but thinking about moving back home to Mississippi
Age: 45 (Husband/Wife)
Current assets
Taxable Assets: 1M taxable - Vanguard SP500
Tax Deferred (401k/IRA): 1.6M - Vanguard SP500/Total Market
Cash - 400K
Assets - House ($800K - very conservative essentially what we paid for it 7 years ago. Homes in that price range in our area are sold within a week with multiple offers)
Debt - Mortgage - $265K (we put down a large down payment)
Net Worth: 3.5M
529 ($100k) (I don’t count the 529 in our NW since that is for our daughter.)
The plan would be to sell our house here and with those proceeds have $3M invested in the market (roughly 1.5M taxable/1.5M tax deferred) with a (60/40 or 70/30 mix with Vanguard), pay cash for a $300K house in the South (which would be a very nice house for that price) and have $200K left over in a cash savings account for emergencies, etc.
I use the word retire but I am sure I will do something back home. I don’t see making or really needing anything close to my current compensation back home. However, I am just not wired at this age to come to a full stop but I also don’t want to die in my 40s from stress and we have no desire to move to yet another temporary stop.
Is our plan feasible?
Thanks