easysurfer
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Who's DH?
I don't follow my wife around the house and I give her plenty of space. Sure, I make a few little suggestions here and there about how thing should be done , but I do my share of the housework, can I help it that she usually says it's not done to her satisfaction?
My brother temporarily retired early (took an early retirement package). His wife still works. He said that he was a good retired husband -- had dinner ready, laundry cleaned and put away when his wife came home. He did take some time to pursue his hobby of fishing.
Still, there was some resentment as she still works and would get on to him. I guess, she would bring home the stress of the job, and he'd want to talk about the latest episode of "Iron Chef".
Now, he is back working and she still works.
I think they actually can both FIRE if they wish to, but it's something the have done for so long I guess they aren't ready to slow down.