You aren't trying hard enough. How about the irritating shifter on the dashboard? Not at all, looks odd but you get used to it very quickly. If an auto, a non-starter to begin with. The backwards wiper control? Huh? The lack of verve going up hills that is not compensated by stunning fuel economy? You don't buy an Element expecting a sports car. Not very fun getting in and out of the back not a problem, however - especially if the front occupants want to stay put true enough - the belts make for exciting times for them! I had thought about an Element - it seemed the most like a fit for my (rental truck) use. Luckily FIL bought one to replace a CRV they wadded up so i've had the chance to use it. MIL loved the CRV, the Element, not so much. (BTW - Element is same platform as the CRV, and that CRV did real well in the crash). I went for a used BMW station wagon. Rear wheel drive not a good thing if you live up north despite ABS, VSC, etc., more poop and the mileage?, way cheaper. That's a laugh. I've owned a BMW and another marquee brand, and the maintenance $ are absolutely outrageous, not cheap by any means as the OP stipulated. Four real doors. But i'm thriffty. And he did say he wants to put dogs and stuff in it, easier without carpets.