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Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
Yes, sometimes bigger is better ...The only problem with a small house is it sometimes is too small for 2 people. DW and I get along much better when we have our space...
It comes down (IMHO) to what lifestyle you desire and what you can afford.
If either (lifestyle/affordability) requires you to downsize based upon desires and/or finances? Fine.
If you desire to have a bigger home than others (due to your lifestyle) and can afford it, so what?
Different folks - different strokes...