Keyboard Ninja
Recycles dryer sheets
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- Apr 13, 2008
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My brother is 32years old, and is extremely unhappy in his middle management job. From what I can tell his is the guy who prepares the cash registers for a large grocery store chain. Apparently he handles the money. He is also one of 2 people who know what they are doing in that department.
I noticed recently that he has been stressed/depressed about something. Apparently he wanted to cut back on to part-time and attempt to finish his bachelor's degree (just started it). The only option he was given by his management was either full-time or quit. He feels trapped.
One option he thought about was joining the Navy. I looked up the nuclear rates and assumed it would be a good fit. I think that will back-fire because the age limit is somewhere around 25 but can be waivered on a case-by-case basis. Hopefully Nords can help me out on this.
My real concern is that my brother is in some sort of mid-life funk. He has been at this grocery store chain since 1997, and has worked his way up the ladder. Every now and then he makes comments that his life sucks, and someday he will be trapped working there for 20-30 years picking up garbage and stocking boxes. I tell him I do that everyday at home and in the Air Force. I have also talked to him about volunteering time to things like Habitat for Humanity, running clubs, leisure learning classes, etc. to meet people. Those have always helped me get out of the house.
So have any of ya'll been in this situation? What did you do to help, or get out of this funk? Thanks.
I noticed recently that he has been stressed/depressed about something. Apparently he wanted to cut back on to part-time and attempt to finish his bachelor's degree (just started it). The only option he was given by his management was either full-time or quit. He feels trapped.
One option he thought about was joining the Navy. I looked up the nuclear rates and assumed it would be a good fit. I think that will back-fire because the age limit is somewhere around 25 but can be waivered on a case-by-case basis. Hopefully Nords can help me out on this.
My real concern is that my brother is in some sort of mid-life funk. He has been at this grocery store chain since 1997, and has worked his way up the ladder. Every now and then he makes comments that his life sucks, and someday he will be trapped working there for 20-30 years picking up garbage and stocking boxes. I tell him I do that everyday at home and in the Air Force. I have also talked to him about volunteering time to things like Habitat for Humanity, running clubs, leisure learning classes, etc. to meet people. Those have always helped me get out of the house.
So have any of ya'll been in this situation? What did you do to help, or get out of this funk? Thanks.