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Old 12-09-2017, 07:16 PM   #21
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I regularly pass mendicants on my way to and from the office. Often, I give them money, sometimes I don't. It depends on my mood that day. I have no idea how or why they ended up asking for money in the street, and I have no idea what they will do with the money if I give it to them. Nor do I care. Maybe they are lazy, maybe they are mentally ill, maybe they are on drugs, maybe they are just down on their luck. I don't know. All I know is that they are fellow human beings.
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Old 12-09-2017, 07:17 PM   #22
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It's not about jailing them permanently. It's about behavior modification. It's about not pouring an equal amount of money into housing a few and offering "services" that don't change anything.

Step back and ask yourself why this mess did not exist 50 years ago? What's changed? As far as I can tell, it's tolerance of bad behavior and enabling addictions. It's not letting people feel the consequences of their actions. It's NOT writing the check to institutionalize people that cannot function that we used to write.
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Most of the "street people" around here are pretty old and look like they've had a lot of "hard miles" on them.

I give 'em dough because I want to.
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It's not about jailing them permanently. It's about behavior modification. It's about not pouring an equal amount of money into housing a few and offering "services" that don't change anything.

Step back and ask yourself why this mess did not exist 50 years ago? What's changed? As far as I can tell, it's tolerance of bad behavior and enabling addictions. It's not letting people feel the consequences of their actions. It's NOT writing the check to institutionalize people that cannot function that we used to write.
50 years ago blue collar wages where higher adjusted for inflation. A lot higher. I wouldn't want to bust my a$$ for <$20K/yr either. Not everyone is college material. Not everyone has the mental ability to make a high income. They shouldn't be jailed or punished in any other way.
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A few thoughts:

First, being homeless in and of itself is not a crime, and does not warrant either being jailed or involuntarily confined to a mental institution. People do still have rights in this country.

Second, a not inconsequential number of homeless people are veterans who served this country honorably, and either suffer from severe PTSD, or mental illness, or have fallen into addiction, and suffer the lingering effects of the difficulties that can accompany re-integration into civilian society. This is a fact, and a disgraceful one that this country has not adequately addressed.

Third, I am going to stop reading this thread, because I would prefer to maintain my belief that, in general, people hold compassion in their hearts for individuals who face challenges they cannot even imagine.

There but for the grace of god go any one of us, if life had dealt us a different hand.
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It's not about jailing them permanently. It's about behavior modification. It's about not pouring an equal amount of money into housing a few and offering "services" that don't change anything.

Step back and ask yourself why this mess did not exist 50 years ago? What's changed? As far as I can tell, it's tolerance of bad behavior and enabling addictions. It's not letting people feel the consequences of their actions. It's NOT writing the check to institutionalize people that cannot function that we used to write.

Yes, let's do ask why this didn't exist 50 years ago. One reason is that long term mental hospitals more or less vanished. At one time people with mental illness, chronic addictions, etc. were institutionalized often for long periods of time. The problem was that they were often not treated, just warehoused. At one time, there were no effective treatments available. But, then there were more treatments available.

This is a be careful what you wish for. There was a push to treat these people. And, eventually, it was ruled that you couldn't just warehouse without treatment the non-dangerous mentally ill. Many advocates celebrated that victory thinking it would mean that the non-dangerous mentally ill would receive treatment.

But, that isn't want happened. What happened was that they were simply released to the street. These were often people with serious mental illness/addiction. The idea that they are going to get a job and be able to get and keep it is, well, not accurate.

I have a daughter with mental illness (she does work actually but it is a struggle for her and she often loses jobs then has to find a new one, etc). Anyway, I remember one time when she was hospitalized and was about to be released -- she wasn't dangerous to others or herself at that moment. She still had a mental illness though. Anyway, we were picking her up from the hospital. I asked what they would have done if we didn't do it.

It was simple. They were going to give her a bus ticket and then simply release her to the street. She would have walked out of the hospital with the clothes on her back, a prescription (no money to fill it) and a single bus ticket. They would have given her the address to a group home that she could stay at...if she had the $700 or so that it cost to go pay for a month.

Even if she was functioning well enough then to work, it isn't that easy to do when you have no address and not a penny to your name. That single bus ticket doesn't do a whole lot for you.

I mean we can say that people who are addicts have made bad choices. But, that doesn't cure the addiction in the meantime. Mental illness itself is often a matter of bad luck.

That does not, by the way, mean that it is a good thing to give cash to the homeless. A better thing is to try to help them to get to a homeless shelter or place to get a meal (but, no, many won't accept that either due to mental illness or substance abuse). I once knew a guy who gave out transportation to a food pantry or homeless shelter. I forget the details and how he did it, but it seemed a better choice than giving out cash.
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Jeebus. Sure a bunch of people who want to spend $50,000+/annum to jail a bunch of people who have their own problems.
HA! They don't want to pay 50 grand to jail those people. They want tax cuts and smaller government. They don't want to treat problems, or fix the causes of problems, and they don't want to pay to throw them jail either. I don't know what they want... other than game their 1040s for communist medical insurance subsidies.
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You also have to figure out the ones who actually need the help or the ones out doing it for the hustle.
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Kind of an awkward time of year for this sort of thing, no?


I see two sides to this issue. On the one hand, there is plenty of bad behavior and lack of responsibility on the part of a solid chunk of the homeless population. Drugs are a primary problem, but I would be surprised if at least some find it easier and/or more lucrative to panhandle rather than work. OTOH, these are human beings who generally have very large problems that have not otherwise have been addressed. Addiction, mental illness, other major health problems, etc. Hard to work if you have a felony record, no fixed address, a few screws loose, etc. And I have to imagine that in climates with a real winter it is no picnic to be exposed to the elements.


I'd guess that if there were resources available to treat the addiction and mental illness of this population you'd just have to deal with the chronically unemployable and the just plain down on their luck folks. Anyone want to hold their breath on those resources being devoted? So I am happy to donate to organized charities and similar efforts, I generally am not interested in handing money over to panhandlers. Many are grifting for their next fix and in any case I am not interested in risking things going poorly for me personally when I do so.
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The paradox is that if you are mentally ill, you need help, but have the legal right to refuse it. And you refuse it because, after all, you are mentally ill. A totally rational and sane person would take the help, take the meds.

Some of the mentally ill have advocates that make sure harm doesn't come to them while they are in crisis mode and the rest we see under bridges and pushing grocery carts of belongings. It's too bad there weren't similar issues in the time of Jesus because He probably would have had an opinion on the topic.
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.... So I am happy to donate to organized charities and similar efforts, I generally am not interested in handing money over to panhandlers. ...
+1 For me, that capsulizes the whole thing.

Donate to organizations that know how to help people. Giving to random beggars is a crap shoot, and likely doing more harm than good.

It's not uncharitable to bypass the street beggar, if you can do more good by donating that to an organization to help the homeless.

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+1 For me, that capsulizes the whole thing.

Donate to organizations that know how to help people. Giving to random beggars is a crap shoot, and likely doing more harm than good.

It's not uncharitable to bypass the street beggar, if you can do more good by donating that to an organization to help the homeless.

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One time a beggar asked us for money, we said we would buy him lunch, he tagged along constantly telling us not to bother ourselves, and the money would be fine. I mean he constantly was trying to get $$ instead of lunch.
When we got to the restaurant, and opened the door, he swore at us, called us names and marched off to beg someone else for some $$ for food....

Obviously it was for drugs/booze and not giving him any $$ was really helping him.
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The panhandlers around here are much older.
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A local news article said they were seeing an uptick in the elderly at the homeless shelters in our area and there were concerns it was going to be a growing trend. It is hard enough to find a job at 70 let alone 70 and homeless as well. Many of those people may easily have dementia or Alzheimer's and they certainly won't improve living on the streets.
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Kind of an awkward time of year for this sort of thing, no?
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After living in San Francisco and seeing my fair share of homelessness, I realized that I am in no position to judge them.
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After living in San Francisco and seeing my fair share of homelessness, I realized that I am in no position to judge them.
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Some years back there was a news report (local) where they found some of the beggars lived in very nice houses in nice neighborhoods. I'm not implying this was most... but they reported on several that they found.

For me it is hard to judge without more objective info. People have gone broke over medical issues and other things.

When I was younger (college age) I would take a homeless beggar to a fast food place and eat with them. I figured that way I knew my donation was going for what I intended and I got to understand them better. Maybe I should consider doing that again?
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You mean the population. I see plenty of people making bad decisions and not taking responsibility everywhere, not just homeless people. Look at foreclosures. Or that more than 1/2 the population is obese. Why should homeless/poor folks be held to a higher moral standard than the rest of us.
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I see wave after wave of these twenty and thirty somethings on the corner begging for a handout and it’s sickening. In my city there are a ton of jobs available, entry level jobs are everywhere, in the year and a half that my wife has been in the country she has gone through 5 different jobs, she wants to work and jobs come with very little effort and a limited English vocabulary. In my city there’s no excuse for failure and I refuse to help anyone that won’t help themself
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