Your experience with service availability is very different from mine, and I am not sure which is reality.
I assure you - this has been discussed on A/V-specific forums
ad infinitum. Every time someone has posted a copy of their Internet bill online, claiming that it is artificially high, it turned out to be within 5% of what we're charged here. Regardless, the point is that if there is a problem, then that problem is with the local government - not with the service provider - and doesn't justify making up one's own terms and conditions and inflicting them on the service provider. Railing against the mass-market is fine - but take it out on the mass-market as a whole (by doing without) rather than on any specific supplier, just doing what society has implicitly told them to do.
My experience was with 3 different states within the last 5 years, 2 were in large cities and one is in a more rural area. I did not have choice of provider in any of the three situations.
Friends of mine moved to New Hampshire when taxes started getting really high here in Massachusetts. What was Massachusetts doing with the money that New Hampshire wasn't doing? Fostering innovation; helping build a strong business environment. The result? My friends from New Hampshire work here, in Massachusetts - oh, and now pay Massachusetts income tax, because folks in Massachusetts were sick and tired of subsidizing the labor market that benefited New Hampshirites. If we have three providers, here, then your local government, if it was doing its job, could have ensured you would have at least two (just like New Hampshire could have fostered a better labor market for New Hampshirites, if New Hampshirites were willing to spend the money to do so, voluntarily). Why doesn't your local government do so? I have no idea, but perhaps because their constituents don't actually think it is important enough (see above, regarding folks in New Hampshire enjoying lower taxes but less focus on fostering great jobs), or they realize that competition wouldn't actually change the price significantly.
I do not see what the city, or state or federal government have anything to do with the practice. Are you saying every activity should be regulated or approved by the government?
Local government is empowered to regulate telecommunications in every state in the nation. I know; I used to deal with regulators in each of the 45 or so states the company I worked for in the early 1990s sold into.
They already control "the practice". They have the ability, if they (you-collectively) are so-inclined, to do whatever it is my local government has done to provide us what you say you want. And again - "Regardless" - any applicable equivocations along these lines would still not justify making up one's own terms and conditions and inflicting them on the service provider.
I do not understand your counter-argument about how competition and the de-monopolization of telephone companies brought down the price of long distance phone calls.
I don't know what about it you didn't understand. Perhaps you think long distance rates went down right after deregulation. They did a little, but they didn't drop to effectively zero for so many people until this past decade. And again - "Regardless" - any applicable equivocations along these lines would still not justify making up one's own terms and conditions and inflicting them on the service provider. If you feel that there are monopolies (judges say there are not, not even locally) and that some kind of anti-trust action is necessary, then make it happen. There is no justification for abusing loopholes and otherwise shifting the cost of use of service from those who steal the service onto those who are honest and forthright.
If you travel frequently, you would have noticed the reduction of number of flights, the pretty steep price increase in tickets, and the dramatic deterioration of in flight services.
The market righting itself after excessive regulation destabilized so many airlines financially that so many of them failed.
I wish I, or anyone else, can "make up my own rules and inflict them on the internet providers ".
If you read the message I replied to, that was precisely what we're talking about.
In my experience, the direction is overwhelmingly one way: The internet providers pretty much made up the rules and control the terms.
This is the nature of the mass-market. You would not want to incur the costs associated with operating mass-market businesses in such a manner that each customer has their own engagement activity, with their own negotiating of terms and conditions. That would in some cases double prices. A fundamental feature of the mass-market is that providers make offers, and consumers have the right to accept or decline.
Like electricity, gas, and health care, there is no realistic possibility of doing without, and I find your suggestion that if I feel the service to be too essential to do without, then bring the government in, curious to say the least.
You shouldn't. Perhaps before you were born, that's the way electricity and natural gas was - practically 100%. It is only through de-regulation that such utilities became less-regulated, mass-market service offerings. In other words, it was the government coming in that opened the doors that are opened, to the extent that they are open today. It should be pretty clear that if you want the doors to be opened more or closed more, or turned into a different shape, and you're unhappy with what the marketplace offers, then you would bring about such changes through the good offices of government.