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So, the awkward little boy I met 7 years ago is about to become a full fledged Senior in high school! I can't believe it.
We just had his summer counseling session to assign his classes for the year, and check off the lists for graduation and college requirements and believe it or not he's about made it through. This is the kid who failed (badly) several classes in jr high school, tested for special ed and didn't know where the pacific ocean was in 7th grade.
He's now doing all his work on his own (no prodding from me - it took 6 years of weaning him off of that) and gets mostly B's (still shocks me) with the occasional slip in one area or the other.
So looks like he's on track to attend a local cal state school - which i think is right up his alley - and may try to walk on the basketball team there.
The only thing he does besides school and friends is play ball. We're encouraging him to look at sports related careers (training, coaching, phys therapy etc), but also to keep an open mind of course.
We can afford the tuition (about $3500 per year yee haw!) and will likely ask him to work part time to pay for extras (especially if he'll be driving) etc.
I really want him to enjoy his senior year - he's made good friends and has been overall, very successful at the school.
Are there other things I should be doing, thinking about to make sure we set him up as well as possible for college?
I'm a little nervous since it's a whole nother transition for all of us, but do have confidence we can all figure it out.
Up until now he's remained relatively sheltered, although he's very social - he doesn't go to a lot of parties, or drink etc. So i know that will be a bigger opportunity in college. Also, he doesn't drive yet, which seems to be a trend with many of his sports/guy friends. I told him i'm not dropping off to college! so it's either a bus pass or he gets some motivation to drive...
Are there any things that can help him do better or avoid doing that may derail him?
He had a rocky start in life, mom disappeared after toddler-hood, but had a great, loving grandma help raise him. His academics were obviously all over the place, but we now have that in order. He and his dad are like best friends now and are able to talk about everything and I know jr. cares about that relationship very much. But sometimes I continue to worry that the earlier instability will be a "trick knee" someday and a drink or drug or girl will help it all to come crashing down!
I'm asking since i know there are a lot of fellas here who've taken various paths, so your insight is particularly welcome.
We just had his summer counseling session to assign his classes for the year, and check off the lists for graduation and college requirements and believe it or not he's about made it through. This is the kid who failed (badly) several classes in jr high school, tested for special ed and didn't know where the pacific ocean was in 7th grade.
He's now doing all his work on his own (no prodding from me - it took 6 years of weaning him off of that) and gets mostly B's (still shocks me) with the occasional slip in one area or the other.
So looks like he's on track to attend a local cal state school - which i think is right up his alley - and may try to walk on the basketball team there.
The only thing he does besides school and friends is play ball. We're encouraging him to look at sports related careers (training, coaching, phys therapy etc), but also to keep an open mind of course.
We can afford the tuition (about $3500 per year yee haw!) and will likely ask him to work part time to pay for extras (especially if he'll be driving) etc.
I really want him to enjoy his senior year - he's made good friends and has been overall, very successful at the school.
Are there other things I should be doing, thinking about to make sure we set him up as well as possible for college?
I'm a little nervous since it's a whole nother transition for all of us, but do have confidence we can all figure it out.
Up until now he's remained relatively sheltered, although he's very social - he doesn't go to a lot of parties, or drink etc. So i know that will be a bigger opportunity in college. Also, he doesn't drive yet, which seems to be a trend with many of his sports/guy friends. I told him i'm not dropping off to college! so it's either a bus pass or he gets some motivation to drive...
Are there any things that can help him do better or avoid doing that may derail him?
He had a rocky start in life, mom disappeared after toddler-hood, but had a great, loving grandma help raise him. His academics were obviously all over the place, but we now have that in order. He and his dad are like best friends now and are able to talk about everything and I know jr. cares about that relationship very much. But sometimes I continue to worry that the earlier instability will be a "trick knee" someday and a drink or drug or girl will help it all to come crashing down!
I'm asking since i know there are a lot of fellas here who've taken various paths, so your insight is particularly welcome.