Mom had a stroke. What do I do now?

[Bestwifeever]

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Originally Posted by mountainsoft Met with the attorney today ($200). He clarified some of my misconceptions about Medicare issues and the interstate complications, but I'm still feeling a little lost and don't know what to do. He referred me to another attorney closer to where mom lives if I want to get the Power of Attorney. That would be another $350+ depending on travel so the attorney could be there to witness mom signing the POA. All on my dime, of course. Quite frankly, we've already spent a chunk of cash on gas, food, a vacation we had to cancel, and now the attorney fee. We really don't have loads of money to spare right now. Lost and frustrated...

Money well spent now to prevent misunderstandings later on (e.g., your main task, selling her house so that the proceeds can fund her nursing home and then have Medicaid kick in--imagine the complications of getting it "sold" and learning you have no standing to do so).

[tps7742]

I commend your for your actions you are taking on her behalf.

[Walt34]

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Originally Posted by Yarnstormer Be very careful - the hospital will try to get you to sign something that will obligate you to pay her bills.

Yes, they tried that when FIL was in a rehab center after hip replacement surgery. Read everything carefully, and if you don't understand it or even think you might not understand it, don't sign it. That can end up costing you a lot more than attorney's fees!