MichealKnight
Full time employment: Posting here.
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- May 2, 2019
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Emotional menage trois, that is. Far be it from me to use a provocative title just for ratings. Regret and anger on one side - pride and relief on the other.
Well, been 18 months since retiring - I've turned 47. Long story short - no college - had a decent small business career - had 17 great years - and then towards the end, 3 rather crappy ones. Put away some money - (excluding residence - net worth around $3.8mm - no debts)...,but, anyone including me would've bet I was easily on my way to $10mm. I'd say 30% my fault+ 70% getting screwed- is why I had to exit early.
So I do brood - but I'm also thankful for what I believe to be financial security, and a very easy life. Less luxurious than was or could have been - but still - the ease is wonderful. Many times I want to mount a comeback - but that requires risking a good 70%+ of my net worth - - and there are industry shifts that favor public companies, or families with $50mm net worths - over a small fry like me.
Anyhow, I was trying to cheer myself up today. Was in the McDonald's parking lot (I passionately adore fast food - just have really cut down on it lately). I was feeling sad over my incomplete business achievements, about not having a business where my kids could visit, see, learn. About how I'll be sort of scraping and watching every dime for college expenses - versus telling DD to go wherever she wants, and an older age where I have money to throw around.
But I try to balance it. I spend most of my days being with kids and DW. Playing low stakes poker. Eating out or cooking. Watching movies in the magnificent home theater I put in - replete with the coolest movie art adorning all the walls.
Finances- yeah, I[m a trifle worried. Over the long term - if stocks can return me 5% nominal , and people keep paying rent - I'll be good. So I was sitting at McD..... I saw the usual line of customers at the drive thru - trying to cheer myself I noted that - they're buying McD and Coke, they're driving many times Ford, GM, Mercedes, and some of them are burning fuel from Exxon or Chevron. Many of them pay up for I-Phones, Nike, and use Google. I was telling myself....yeah, I'll be ok and while it SUCKS not to have gone all the way - this is not bad for a guy with no degree who had one of the lowest GPAs in high school.
14 YO DD is to have unexpected scoliosis (back) surgery between now and summer we're all terrified. I do love having the freedom to do all the doctor appointments, to do her school runs so no bus..... and I do like that I'll have no business nor boss and will take off all the time needed till its over.
You can't always get what you want...but if you try sometime....'you'll get what you need'
At least that's what I'm selling myself on. Trying to anyway.
BTW- Steak and Egg and Cheese bagel - was frigging flawless today. Oh my God I wish I could have eaten 2.
Well, been 18 months since retiring - I've turned 47. Long story short - no college - had a decent small business career - had 17 great years - and then towards the end, 3 rather crappy ones. Put away some money - (excluding residence - net worth around $3.8mm - no debts)...,but, anyone including me would've bet I was easily on my way to $10mm. I'd say 30% my fault+ 70% getting screwed- is why I had to exit early.
So I do brood - but I'm also thankful for what I believe to be financial security, and a very easy life. Less luxurious than was or could have been - but still - the ease is wonderful. Many times I want to mount a comeback - but that requires risking a good 70%+ of my net worth - - and there are industry shifts that favor public companies, or families with $50mm net worths - over a small fry like me.
Anyhow, I was trying to cheer myself up today. Was in the McDonald's parking lot (I passionately adore fast food - just have really cut down on it lately). I was feeling sad over my incomplete business achievements, about not having a business where my kids could visit, see, learn. About how I'll be sort of scraping and watching every dime for college expenses - versus telling DD to go wherever she wants, and an older age where I have money to throw around.
But I try to balance it. I spend most of my days being with kids and DW. Playing low stakes poker. Eating out or cooking. Watching movies in the magnificent home theater I put in - replete with the coolest movie art adorning all the walls.
Finances- yeah, I[m a trifle worried. Over the long term - if stocks can return me 5% nominal , and people keep paying rent - I'll be good. So I was sitting at McD..... I saw the usual line of customers at the drive thru - trying to cheer myself I noted that - they're buying McD and Coke, they're driving many times Ford, GM, Mercedes, and some of them are burning fuel from Exxon or Chevron. Many of them pay up for I-Phones, Nike, and use Google. I was telling myself....yeah, I'll be ok and while it SUCKS not to have gone all the way - this is not bad for a guy with no degree who had one of the lowest GPAs in high school.
14 YO DD is to have unexpected scoliosis (back) surgery between now and summer we're all terrified. I do love having the freedom to do all the doctor appointments, to do her school runs so no bus..... and I do like that I'll have no business nor boss and will take off all the time needed till its over.
You can't always get what you want...but if you try sometime....'you'll get what you need'
At least that's what I'm selling myself on. Trying to anyway.
BTW- Steak and Egg and Cheese bagel - was frigging flawless today. Oh my God I wish I could have eaten 2.