Ok folks, I went to the manufacturers site and started reading. I found this to be helpful.
Symptoms: a) Unable or difficult to establish the pilot light; or
b) Burner(s) and/or pilot shuts down after a few minutes of operation.
Probable Cause: The ODS Pilot has two small holes that draw in air to mix with the gas to create a stable pilot flame. Unfortunately, over time lint and dust in the air accumulate inside these holes, which disrupts the proper operation of the pilot flame.
Action to Take: 1) Gather tools needed:
a) Vacuum cleaner with brush attachment
b) A can of compressed air with a tube (the type that is used to clean computer keyboards) or a drinking straw.
2) Vacuum up all lint, dust & debris from logs, grate, burner(s), burner air intake and air shutter regions (underneath burner, where air gets drawn in), and pilot area. View photo of burners.
3) Using the compressed air or a straw, blow out:
a) Burner ports (where the main flame comes from);
b) Burner air intake and air shutter regions (end of burner(s) where gas and air mix);
c) Around the valve knob (the one you depress to light the pilot); and
d) MOST IMPORTANTLY, the air intake holes of the ODS Pilot Assembly. These small air intake holes are between 1/16" and 1/8" in diameter and are located about 2” from the end of the pilot from where the pilot flame originates. Use the compressed air or straw to blow out these holes. Repeat a couple of times.
THe symptoms of my fireplace were like B in this instance, so I followed the suggestions and so far last evening after taking all the logs off --then reassembling it worked! I had already cleaned the burners but I hadn't cleaned out the pilot burner holes. Years ago we had a natural gas water heater that We did have to replace the thermo coupler because the pilot would not stay lit, so I didn't think that was my problem. Any way thanks to all for the suggestions and just wanted to let ya'll know it is fixed now. I hope everyone has a wonderful Christmas/ New Years season!