Is it just my perception - or has there been an increase the past few years in people not valuing hard work and building a career, saving and investing, not over-spending and basically doing what it takes to ensure a successful retirement later on?.
workburout you run with the wrong crowd.
I want to share a secret with you... You get it. Plenty of young people still get it. I work with them 4 days a week and most are very hard working. My younger colleagues went through a pretty rigorous interview process to get hired. We only recruit from certain colleagues and you’ll need a B+ average to even get an interview. Yes even amongst the cream there are those that have not figured it out, but will eventually (I was one) and there are sadly too many of those that will never figure it out.
Even for my educated colleagues It starts with the little things: They built a beautiful Starbucks on the first floor of my building. I think the cheapest cup of coffee is around $2.50. I had it once when it was raining too hard to walk to Dunkin. It very trendy to sit ,chat and have a $4 cup of chocolate mocha java and with a $4 blueberry muffin. (I can means for that scene but a life time of thrift will make that coffee bitter - plus all that darn sugar). I discovered with an Artic travel mug (the Yeti was to pricey) I can walk into the office with warm cup of coffee that the Mrs. buys on sale. Maybe it cost me 30 cents. My mind says $4, 5 days a week for 48 weeks a year is roughly a grand a year. Over the next 20 years if they throw it into the market that averages 8% they’ll have a $45,000 nest egg. It all takes discipline, time and a plan. Yeah its just a cup of coffee and not a problem if you are doing everything else right - but how many are?
A 40 year old colleague of mine came into a modest inheritance and asked for advise on how to invest. I sit next to him and he’s heard my vocal enthusiasm for investing. I took him through the process of opening a brokerage account then I reluctantly picked some low cost dividend ETFs. He told me a few days ago “I told my wife its up $18,000... can that be right?” “Yes Joe it is right.” We’ve had the whole conversation about long term money and inevitable market dips .. My hope is it registered. But for a guy with a business degree I have to ask myself how do you know so little?
My point in all this is
1. Someone had to tell you (e.g. parents, instructor, Dave Ramsey) or you had to read it and it had to stick.
2. You have to have the discipline to act on it
3. You have to recognize that working hard isn’t enough you have to work and live smart. By living smart I mean abstaining from the ‘bling’.
Oh and how easy it is to fall under the spell of bling. Stuff oh how I hate it but thats another rant.
Yeah the future managing directors will find every excuse to work until the middle of the night. The really smart ones will find balance, LBYM build a good bye pile and be exceedily happy.
Im pretty sure my ‘bring my lunch’ daughter’s got it. I helped her do her first electronic trade into a short term fund on Friday. I bought her a couple of books on investing that posters on this forum suggested.
Remember I said you have to learn it from someone. I told the son 3.2 GPA or I yank him from college and he can go to the Local Penn State. I explained lower than that and you wont even get an interview.
It is a hard cruel world out there...