Right now my back up is a 6000 watt generator that I converted to natural gas and a cheap Harbor Freight 2 cycle generator. The big generator is very loud and total overkill, except for the well pump. So, my plan for an extended outage is to run the big generator periodically and the little generator for just lights and internet. I wired my service panel interlock so I can plug the generators straight into the breaker box. The small generator would power both sides of the box at 110 volts and any 220 circuits won't work, whereas the big generator provides 220 volts. Eventually, I'll pick up an small inverter 2000 watt generator for camping and use it to replace the cheapy 2 cycle generator.
It sounds like we are in much the same boat. IIRC, some of those quiet inverter generators have the ability to use a 12V battery to provide additional surge 120VAC capacity (for starting AC units, pumps, etc), which could be handy.
Since the well pump is really the big challenge (needing 220VAC and with a big start-up wattage), another approach I've considered is just using a separate small 12VDC lowered into the well. If I got a
small 60W/12VDC pump with a 100PSI cutout switch (they make many PSI ratings and watt ratings), and if it is 75' below (32PSI head) my pressure tank, then it would fill the tank to approx 70 PSI and stop. I'm sure the delivery rate would be very slow (rated at 5LPM at unstated backpressure). But I'm in no hurry, and a filled pressure tank is 10 gallons. Or, go primitive and use it to fill buckets.
Maybe just put the pump on top of a 2' long 2" dia PVC pipe "float" and lower it into the well, along with it's supply wires and a 5/8" vinyl water line. I don't know if it would fit and not get fouled on the standard well pump water and electric lines. Lowering >anything< down a well is fraught with considerable risk.
But the payoff of eliminating the 220VAC/3000W (peak) well pump requirement is very big. Then everything is 110VAC and a max peak load of less than 2000W, inverters to do that are plentiful.
How about using a 220V inverter that runs at 24V or 48V, feeding from multiple batteries wired in series, not parallel, to reduce the wiring cost and the voltage drop due to horrendous currents?
That would work. Unless I could find a $pecialized charger/inverter, I suppose this would mean disconnecting them from their "load" series wiring to allow them to be charged individually at 12VDC from regular float chargers/ubiquitous car battery chargers.
This is the type that off-grid people use to generate whole-house power from batteries. And a popular brand is MPP Solar, out of Taiwan and not mainland China, who makes a series of such inverters.
And the beauty of their inverters is that they include a solar charger so that you can just wire solar panels to the inverter box.
And more! The inverters also incorporate a line charger, so that you can charge the batteries off the grid, or off a generator if you wish.
If the generator has remote starting capability, their inverters will wake up the generator to recharge the batteries when the latter are run down.
Check them out. There's a forum frequented by off-grid Aussies, and they have a lot of experience with this brand.
I'll take a look at it, thanks. It may be a bit much (complexity/expense) for emergency use only.