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Give me a museum and I'll fill it. (Picasso) Give me a forum ...
My dad showed me an article yesterday about the "challenges" of being a stay at home dad. Included were some 'forums' like this one. I thought reading through a few might be interesting.
Holy. Cow.
What a bunch of unhappy people. Depression. Substance abuse. Complete loss of spousal communication. Feelings of inadequacy. Constant discussions of divorce as a "when and how" rather than the last option. Lots of "I'm not appreciated", "I think my wife is cheating", "she doesnt care about me", "we havent had sex in 5 years". Ick.
I know theres a lot of ER'd dads here, and I dont hear that sort of thing. Is it the shared financial independence? Is it that the sort of guy that ER's is less likely to be affected by these emotional issues? Do we just not talk about it? Do these "SAHD" sites (maybe something in that moniker is telling...) just draw the unhappy people who want to vent?
Any more "balanced" fori for stay at home dads? I was hoping for something a little more in line with ideas, solutions and discussions about the unique aspects of the situation.
Holy. Cow.
What a bunch of unhappy people. Depression. Substance abuse. Complete loss of spousal communication. Feelings of inadequacy. Constant discussions of divorce as a "when and how" rather than the last option. Lots of "I'm not appreciated", "I think my wife is cheating", "she doesnt care about me", "we havent had sex in 5 years". Ick.
I know theres a lot of ER'd dads here, and I dont hear that sort of thing. Is it the shared financial independence? Is it that the sort of guy that ER's is less likely to be affected by these emotional issues? Do we just not talk about it? Do these "SAHD" sites (maybe something in that moniker is telling...) just draw the unhappy people who want to vent?
Any more "balanced" fori for stay at home dads? I was hoping for something a little more in line with ideas, solutions and discussions about the unique aspects of the situation.