HawkeyeNFO
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for me it is a vice - I love going out to eat! But it does get expensive. I found this post describing some of the pitfalls: Protecting your Money Mustache from Spendy Friends | Mr. Money Mustache.
we can get out of the restaurant for $15-30 usually (for a family of 4).
W2R said:Exactly... and MrMoneyMustache spent $60 for a family of two. What's wrong with this picture? I think he made some bad decisions that had nothing to do with whether he was eating out or not. That restaurant was expensive! And then, he decided to compound that problem by choosing something expensive that he could not easily share, and ordering beer. Maybe he should re-examine why he ended up at that restaurant and why he decided to spend so much there.
P.S. - - I agree completely about eating out with kids. It wasn't as much fun for me back then either, because the experience is interrupted by having to teach Restaurant Behavior 101. It will be more fun when they are grown and gone.
I'd always vote for the beer with dinner, W2R--to each his (or her) own.
Sarah in SC said:I have a peculiar aversion to sharing meals, so I'd never order something to share with DH. We get our own meals. Maybe because I'm a youngest child, but I don't share my food.
Since restaurant portions are so HUGE, if I felt that way then I would simply eat half and take the rest home in a "to go" box. The effect would be the same, in that you would get two meals out of it so each meal would cost half as much.
We usually just have the waitress split the meal and each get our own (half sized) plate. Half a sandwich or wrap is just enough. But we don't split salads either because they aren't so high in calories or fillilng, and can be messy to split.
Ah, that might work. I just imagine DH taking all the "good" stuff and leaving me the stuff he doesn't like, while I'm distracted. Trust issues.
But I might do more "to-go" boxing, now that you mention it.
Where I've really noticed how expensive it is getting is fast food.
I'd always vote for the beer with dinner, W2R--to each his (or her) own. Whereas I completely agree about never wanting to eat anywhere with children!