Anyone else here forced to retire and scared to death?

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Forced to Retire

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I have been reading the posts on this board for months and am shocked how many people have retired after years of great career success and expert and wonderful skills regarding financial planning. Many posters are so proud to tell the world that they only take 2% or less out of their portfolio every year and expect to give millions to their family upon their death.

I don't think this the real world.

The real world is someone like me. Struggled to save money, had bad investment choices, and were forced to retire when they were fired from their job and due to lack of job opportunities for sixty one year old men with white hair who look and feel like they are 70, are sitting at home waiting for Social Security to become available in 2017. (I am going to be 62 in October 2017)

Any support for someone who was forced to retire early and only has $300K saved?
 
The people on this board tend to be more affluent than the average population. Most work/worked jobs paying well above the national average and saved a high percentage. That's not the norm for the overall population. I know plenty of people who worked their whole lives and retired on less than your 300K. You may have to move to a lower cost area and cut back on some luxuries but SS plus $300K is very doable.
 
Sorry, it is the real world for me.
That does not mean it was all easy street, in fact far far far from it.
(homeless 20 yrs ago).
But I took each setback as a sharp pointed lesson to educate myself, be smart about what I do as I needed to survive.

To get help/support more details are needed.
Explain where you have your $300K saved.
Why did you struggle to save money ?
 
Sorry, it is the real world for me.
That does not mean it was all easy street, in fact far far far from it.
(homeless 20 yrs ago).
But I took each setback as a sharp pointed lesson to educate myself, be smart about what I do as I needed to survive.

To get help/support more details are needed.
Explain where you have your $300K saved.
Why did you struggle to save money ?

My $300K portfolio is 60% VTI and 40% BND.

Why did I struggle to save money? ANSWER: Lots of layoffs and firings during my career due to my outspoken eccentric personality and long periods of unemployment.

Since I lost my career job 9 months ago, I have applied at hundreds of places and got no where, even at Walmart.

I currently rent with six months left on the lease. I am single and don't have any friends or family I can depend on.

Right now I am burning through cash but when I get Social Security at age 62 next year I will have an income of $2500 a month with about $1250 in Social Security and $1250 in 5% annual withdrawals. A figure almost impossible to live on in very expensive Fairfax VA.
 
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My $300K portfolio is 60% VTI and 40% BND.

Why did I struggle to save money? ANSWER: Lots of layoffs and firings during my career due to my outspoken eccentric personality and long periods of unemployment.

Since I lost my career job 9 months ago, I have applied at hundreds of places and got no where, even at Walmart.

Right now I am burning through cash but when I get Social Security at age 62 next year I will have an income of $2500 a month with about $1250 in Social Security and $1250 in 5% annual withdrawals. A figure almost impossible to live on in very expensive Fairfax VA.

What is your housing situation? Do you have a paid off house or could you downsize. If you rent then you will likely have to relocate or get a roommate. Have you tracked your expenses? It's very important to know where your money is going especially if things are tight.
 
My FIL (now deceased) fit the description of the OP, except he was laid off in his late 50's. He got by surprising well. Looking back it amazes DW and I, because we know how little they had about $250K saved, plus SS and a tiny pension from a megacorp. In fact, when I go on a frugal rant, DW reminds me that her parents retired with very little and didn't starve. On the other hand, FIL never traveled anywhere and mostly watched TV while feeding his dog potato chips.
 
I pull way over 2% and feel comfortable with it. Look into other Withdrawal plans. I'm counting on SS to cover minimum living expenses later on.

I have family members living on SS alone and they enjoy their lives, they just don't travel much or eat in restaurants often. Paid off houses helped a lot. I have former co workers in even worse situations than yours and they're making it. One fellow loves golfing, so he moved to Myrtle Beach and picked up a 10 hour a week minimum wage gig that lets him play free at three different clubs. Happy as a clam but always broke, way happier living on about $20k a year than he was working at $100k.

If you can't afford the lifestyle you're living you may have to change your lifestyle. You may find the new one more full filling.
 
I guess you could stay in Fairfax (I used to live near there) but yes, it is a high cost of living place to be. Any chance the owner where you rent would let you break the lease given your circumstances? No harm in asking, the worst they can do is say "no".

Lots of places are cheaper to live. If there is nothing tying you to where you are then there's no reason not to move and lots of reason to do so. $5k/month will buy a nice, but not luxurious, lifestyle in lots of places. But as you note Fairfax is not one of them.
 
My $300K portfolio is 60% VTI and 40% BND. .....
Right now I am burning through cash but when I get Social Security at age 62 next year I will have an income of $2500 a month with about $1250 in Social Security and $1250 in 5% annual withdrawals. A figure almost impossible to live on in very expensive Fairfax VA.

You probably need to rethink that level of withdrawals as well as where you live. Firecalc gives you a 46.8% success rate with $300k savings, $30k/year of spending, 60/40 AA, $15k of SS starting in 2017, etc.). If you can reduce your spending to $25k a year in today's $ then your success rate increases to 95%.

You can look at how things you can do might affect your success rate at firecalc.com
 
$5k/month will buy a nice, but not luxurious, lifestyle in lots of places. But as you note Fairfax is not one of them.

I believe the OP will only have $2500/mo to live on not $5000. Big difference. $2500 is enough to get by in a low cost area and $5000 is enough to live very well in low cost area. In Fairfax $2500 is very difficult to live on unless renting with roommates.
 
Yes, I looked up Fairfax and it is very nice and close to DC, yup expensive.

I would imaging it wouldn't be too hard to break lease as new tenants are likely fast.

Yeah, move somewhere cheaper where nobody knows you and try again.
 
What do you like to do? I would try to do that for a job (instead of Walmart). I'm thinking I would try to do the canoes at Disney World. Or you probably have enough to just hang out if that is what you like to do.
 
I believe the OP will only have $2500/mo to live on not $5000. Big difference. $2500 is enough to get by in a low cost area and $5000 is enough to live very well in low cost area. In Fairfax $2500 is very difficult to live on unless renting with roommates.

You're right he's not on SS yet. My bad. I don't know about the other "$1,250 in annual withdrawals" that he writes about. I used to live not far from Fairfax and it is expensive to live there, or anywhere near D.C.
 
Sorry to hear about your situation.

My DM lived on about $1100 a month in SS and pensions. After she was forced out of her job at 62, she moved to a small town in Florida. The house was paid for and she had a bit less in savings than you do. The COL was very low. She was very happy there for about 25 years and never felt deprived. She got involved in her new community and found inexpensive activities to keep her busy and fulfilled.

As others have pointed out, expense management is critical.

Is there anyway that you could generate some income from a part time j*b or consulting gig? Could you start an on-line business?

Many people on this forum have suffered setbacks and worked to overcome them. Please keep reading and posting here. There is always a way to make it work.
 
You're right he's not on SS yet. My bad. I don't know about the other "$1,250 in annual withdrawals" that he writes about. I used to live not far from Fairfax and it is expensive to live there, or anywhere near D.C.

Actually what I meant was that he says he'll have $1250/mo in SS and $1250/mo in withdrawals from his $300K---5% is $15K. $15K/12=$1250/mo. So he'll have $2500/mo to live on when he starts getting SS.
 
Welcome. The people here tend to have self-selected to retire early, so you'll typically find people here have planned for a long time. But that doesn't mean there isn't good info for everyone. I agree that a 5% withdrawal rate is too high for the long run. If you don't have strong ties to your location, look for somewhere cheaper to live. Fairfax is lovely, but expensive. You'll be surprised how much you can save on rent, utilities etc. Or see if you can find a shared living arrangement - not only can you save on rent, but you may find people you want to befriend.

If you haven't already done so, check out other sites like Mr Money Moustache and Early Retirement Extreme - they have a lot of discussion on how to reach your goals while sticking to a budget.
 
First of all you need to leave the area. I live in Montgomery County and am counting the days I can get out of this disaster of a place...will be moving north to PA. You can drive 2 miles in almost any direction here and you will see a condo/apartment building going up. Its ridiculous...the infrastructure cannot handle all these people yet they just keep building. Good luck with that.

Move somewhere else. Do you like a warmer climate...head south. You can find places to rent anywhere outside of a major metro area for less than $600/month.

You have a decent amount of money saved. Once you start pulling SS you should be fine...assuming you get out of the DC metro area.
 
I don't think 5% is too high if retiring at 60+. Of course it depends on your expected life span. I think it's very unlikely i'll see 80 so I would take 5% at 61 like the OP plans to do.
 
Rent a room instead of apartment, Craigslist shows a lot of rooms available in Fairfax for less than $500 :
https://washingtondc.craigslist.org/search/roo?query=fairfax&max_price=500
This. Since you don't have any family requirements (I am assuming this) then renting a room is an easy answer....and I wouldn't sweat breaking the lease very much. If you moved to a lower COL area, a room would be even cheaper. Also, in my suburb of ATL, there are lots of McMansions around where people rent out in law suites or very well appointed basements for much cheaper than you would get an apartment.

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What do you like to do? I would try to do that for a job (instead of Walmart). I'm thinking I would try to do the canoes at Disney World. Or you probably have enough to just hang out if that is what you like to do.

+1 This and moving to a lower cost area are probably great places to start planning. You can live pretty cheaply and happily if you want. Some folks live full time in an RV (me included, but I don't travel) and explore all parts of the country. Others find a low cost of living area and settle there. Some move to very low cost of living areas in other countries. When you start SS, you can earn up to $15,720 without penalty. If you move and earn something close to that, you should do fine and maybe you could cut back on withdrawals for a few years which would allow your stash to last several more years. So... What do you REALLY want to do??
 
Like others have said..this site tends to be dominated with fairly wealthy types who have had the great skill and LUCK to have had steady employment in industries that paid well and had retirement options that they took advantage of. There is also a HUGE set on here that worked in the government side..public service..or military. They really have a total different financial situation that is hard for many of us to even understand the acronyms nor their issues.
Like you I was " retired" at 62..$40bbl oil , grey hair, part of old guard and the fatal " too outspoken" tag around my neck......It was a horrific few months as I planned to work a few more years but thru a lot of hard work, a great wife who had about 3 years selling new homes that paid astronomically for 2 of those 3. I'm ok financially BUT it is in large part cause I do NOT live in N Va, or [mod edit], or any of the trendy high cost parts of the country.
I will be very blunt with you....Your numbers say that you have to move. Head to an area with reasonable cost of living and some employment ops for an old fart.
In Houston you can still find a job in about 30 minutes if you actually WANT to work and are willing to look at it as a job not a career. And I'm not talking burger flipper. Retail is booming, service and medical are huge down here...there just i nothing for anything Oil related.
 
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I have been reading the posts on this board for months and am shocked how many people have retired after years of great career success and expert and wonderful skills regarding financial planning. Many posters are so proud to tell the world that they only take 2% or less out of their portfolio every year and expect to give millions to their family upon their death.

I don't think this the real world.

The real world is someone like me. Struggled to save money, had bad investment choices, and were forced to retire when they were fired from their job and due to lack of job opportunities for sixty one year old men with white hair who look and feel like they are 70, are sitting at home waiting for Social Security to become available in 2017. (I am going to be 62 in October 2017)

Any support for someone who was forced to retire early and only has $300K saved?
Sorry that life has dealt you some bad breaks. I am in very good shape financially but nobody gave me anything. I worked a state job for years while building up my business. That being said you have more saved than most people and if this is going to be your income going forward it really comes down to adjusting your spending to match. You need to prioritize your spending to get as much pleasure from life as you can. I think your a smart person and can make the changes necessary.Life can be good on a budget,try to enjoy.
 
A lot of good advice has been given already. My father just retired in February at the age of 65. Never planned for retirement. Both he and my mother are care free and day to day. They have a paid for house and live comfortably on SS alone. He has less than you do in savings.
There are several suggestions provided to you that I plan on incorporating myself. The wife and I will move to a cheap coastal town in Florida. She plans on working with Manatee and sea turtle rescue. I plan on getting a very part time job at a golf course for playing privileges only. I should have more than enough easily saved to do this without working, but want to stay engaged somehow. At least I think I do at this point.

I'm a simple man and am like my avatar.

A good round of golf, good tunes, something good on the grill, and my honey by my side and life is good.

My point being, you'll be fine. Incorporate some of the ideas suggested here and you can enjoy a nice retirement. Don't worry about what you can't change now, and make the best of it.

Cheers!
 
Consider a move to Thailand? You can live well on SS. They have a 1 year retirement visa for those 50+.
 
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