nursing home
about 30 years ago i get a call for a dead body in a nursing home ( i was a cop), if i remember correctly is was about 90 % women patients, lined up in wheel chairs in the hallway, the place smelled like dirty diaper, one woman grabbed my hand and said to me "take me home", i said im sorry mom , im not your son,i cant take you home, she said "i know your not my son" but i want to go home, i left that place in tears, i have heard that places have improved, but i will never get that scene out of my head, when my eldest sister suggested we take moms money sign her up to medicaid and wait out the 5 years look back while mom lives with me, i turned to my mom and reminded her about that story that i came home to tell her 30 years prior, she remembered, she told my sister to "tell all the other kids" im staying home, ill hire a private nurse when the money runs out , kill me, . well mom has since sold her house of 57 years, she cries for no reason on certain days its depressing , but she is living in my home with a 24 hour aid, at 1900 a week, i hope she lives long . and happy, and spends every dime on herself.