JoeWras
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Sorry to hear that athena. Our parent are vulnerable to emotions.The same thing happened to my Dad last week. He took $7,800 out of his Fidelity account and wired it to another bank account, supposedly to bail out my niece who'd been arrested because she'd been driving around with friends and the friends were caught with drugs on them.
As for the original story, I want to speak up for the banker. I know on this forum we are "do it yourselfers" and tend to loathe advice from professionals. But in this case, it was a professional who actually stopped this madness.
This happened with my Dad. Dad almost got sucked into the fake lottery scheme. Thankfully, the banker stopped him. Dad had just enough sense left in him to take it to the bank and speak with his favorite guy. Thankfully, he convinced Dad it was all fake.
Advice to all out there with elder parents: get text monitoring of their accounts! Before Dad gave up all the banking to me, I got an on-line account for him and set up monitoring of his banking and credit cards. Dad didn't really understand or care what I was doing. All I wanted to do was monitor. The text messages were a godsend. First, I knew if he was doing something stupid. And second, I knew he was alive and well, doing normal stuff.
The downside of this? None, if you have honest kids. VERY BAD for bad characters in a family. It was WAY TOO EASY to get online access for dad. Bad siblings could do bad stuff way too easy.