FinanceDude said:
Not quite the same........speaking from someone who has done both..........
Hmmmm..,okay, but when you say not
quite the same that makes me think that there are some
similarities. I know you're sensitive to bashing FA's and that's not what I'm doing (although I'm sure there are some crooks and incompetents), it's just that I'm saying that there must be some institutional pressures placed on people to sell stuff so the company can make more profits.
My Dream said:
Leonidas Thanks for the detailed and easy to follow explanation. That was great and I will agree with everything except the paragraph above. Although it was close, I did more than just tell them what I wanted with a credit card and left. I gave them my measurements and constant feedback saying, I'm not happy since they don't fit the measurements I gave you.
In reality, We gave my FA our exact goals, and not only followed through on what was expected of us finacially, we more than exceded it. And when I told FA that I wasn't happy,and even went as far as to say that I was putting FA on "porbation, nothing and I mean nothing changed.
On a different note, my wife received a call yesterday during dinner from a lawyer saying he was requested to call us from our FA since he stated we wanted a will. After completing the call my DW looked over to me in dissapointment, saying, I don't thing our FA really hears what we're saying. We told him 4 times during the last meeting that we didn't want life insurance, and that we already had a will.
In my case I just think that we should have choice a FA more wisely since my DW and I felt that it was in poor taste for FA to say at our final meeting, that "I made a lot of money off of both of you, and I mean a lot, and I'll be honest, I'm sorry to see you guys want to go to another institution". Can you imagine how we felt.
Thanks for the additional details. Then I guess, modifying the analogy to fit that info, it was more of a case that the salesguy kept dragging you over to the zebra striped suits when you wanted something conservative to wear to the office. If that happened to you I'm sure you wouldn't spend all day with the same sales person. After a couple of tries to get the person to understand what you want, you would have eventually walked out the door or demanded to see the manager.
I remember a psych class in college during which we discussed a test used by a car dealership to evaluate people who applied to sales positions. It was a multiple choice test that was designed to primarily measure how motivated the applicant was to
make money. The dealership knew that if it paid its sales force on commission that those salespeople who were more motivated to make money would find the only way to do it was to maximize profit in every transaction. There's nothing wrong with a business wanting to make money, but all consumers need to understand that and know that they are dealing with people who have a basic conflict between servicing the customer and making money off the customer. You have to know the difference between what is the right thing for you to buy and a different deal in which the salesperson sees more profit for him/her and the company.
All I'm trying to point out to you is that you weren't born with the knowledge of how to buy suits, or cars, or groceries...or investment products. You may not be the most sophisticated shopper, but you can roughly evaluate how well those products fill your needs, how well the salesfolks treat you, and, although you may not drive the hardest bargain, you can tell the difference between a great deal and a total ripoff. Invest in yourself first - make the effort to learn the basics so you can make a somewhat informed decision and know when you're getting blatantly ripped off.
brewer12345 said:
Holy cow! I cannot even express how inappropriate that is!
Yeah...I would be hard pressed to keep myself from inviting that guy to step outside where we could settle our differences in a different forum.