harley
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Hi everyone.
I'm not sure if this is the right forum for this question, but it seems like the best fit.
My mother has recently (last week) lost her husband of 34 years to cancer, and along with the heartache that goes with that kind of loss she has been left in fairly severe financial straits. Between his military pension and both of their Social Securities, they were living off $90K/year, after taxes. Pretty sweet.
However, they assumed she would die first, and that he would be fine with his pension and SS. He came from a long lived family, and she didn't. He appeared to be in much better health, although that turned out to be an illusion based on not going to the doctor for over 20 years. And the assumption was bad anyway, just based on statistics.
Anyway, he died first. They have no real investments, and were somehow managing to spend almost all of the incoming money each year. She's left with his (higher) SS - $1300/month. They also had $140K in savings accounts (makes me want to scream!). He had about $100K in life insurance policies. And she owns 2 parcels of low value property, maybe $50K for the two. And her house, free and clear. If sold, maybe $200K. So anyway, she's going to have a $15K SS income, and maybe $300K to live on, for who knows how long. I'm already working on getting her to recognize that she can't spend so freely anymore. Hopefully I can get that through to her.
I'm retired and have plenty of money for my situation, and I know a fair amount about how to invest it and take care of myself and my wife going forward. So I consider myself fairly well educated for that type of investing. However, I know very little about investing a smaller amount very safely. I'm hoping she can draw between 5-8%/year to suppement her SS. If she dies with a penny left, great. But I don't want her to run out.
I will help her as needed, but she would prefer to do this without what she sees as charity. She wants me to help her handle her finances, since she has obviously never learned. She was a good saver, but a lousy manager. I know what they did wrong, but that's hindsight now. I'm going to be studying up on bonds and other safer investments, and was hoping the folks here could give me some advice about things to look into.
Thanks very much.
Harley
I'm not sure if this is the right forum for this question, but it seems like the best fit.
My mother has recently (last week) lost her husband of 34 years to cancer, and along with the heartache that goes with that kind of loss she has been left in fairly severe financial straits. Between his military pension and both of their Social Securities, they were living off $90K/year, after taxes. Pretty sweet.
However, they assumed she would die first, and that he would be fine with his pension and SS. He came from a long lived family, and she didn't. He appeared to be in much better health, although that turned out to be an illusion based on not going to the doctor for over 20 years. And the assumption was bad anyway, just based on statistics.
Anyway, he died first. They have no real investments, and were somehow managing to spend almost all of the incoming money each year. She's left with his (higher) SS - $1300/month. They also had $140K in savings accounts (makes me want to scream!). He had about $100K in life insurance policies. And she owns 2 parcels of low value property, maybe $50K for the two. And her house, free and clear. If sold, maybe $200K. So anyway, she's going to have a $15K SS income, and maybe $300K to live on, for who knows how long. I'm already working on getting her to recognize that she can't spend so freely anymore. Hopefully I can get that through to her.
I'm retired and have plenty of money for my situation, and I know a fair amount about how to invest it and take care of myself and my wife going forward. So I consider myself fairly well educated for that type of investing. However, I know very little about investing a smaller amount very safely. I'm hoping she can draw between 5-8%/year to suppement her SS. If she dies with a penny left, great. But I don't want her to run out.
I will help her as needed, but she would prefer to do this without what she sees as charity. She wants me to help her handle her finances, since she has obviously never learned. She was a good saver, but a lousy manager. I know what they did wrong, but that's hindsight now. I'm going to be studying up on bonds and other safer investments, and was hoping the folks here could give me some advice about things to look into.
Thanks very much.
Harley