This pandemic was a failure of imagination at all levels. WHO, CDC, Feds, Congress, Hospitals, Governors and Public School system. As a result, they were all behind the curve making plans and policy and clear communications only when the crisis was self evident.
With DW, I kept my worst fears to myself. Got her in January to agree to postpone planned trips to Hawaii and summer cruise in the Baltic (on Princess Emerald no less). She thought I was over reacting. Our AA was roughly right for our early retirement - but following our roll to an IRA in January I took enough LTCG in February to cover expenses for the year - would have done that with or without the virus.
DW jumped at the suggestion to visit family in AZ and PA during February. I came back from AZ early and she stayed - putting her 87 yo father in ICU for a gastro bleed (6 pints of blood low) and delaying her return home. She came back two weeks ago - just in time to avoid the crazy. While she was gone, I topped off our hurricane supplies, bought the pistol and ammo I have wanted forever, and started buying supplies for all of the house projects planned to keep me occupied for a few months.
During this time it was amazing how many friends and strangers still wanted to shake hands. Refused and talked about social distancing or elbow bumps. Facebook posts and neighborhood discussions indicated a hard core hard headed group who were not concerned - its just the flu. Amazing.
On the other hand, living in Florida with all of the hurricanes, it seemed that the snowbirds were the ones panic buying with the out of state license plates prevalent in the parking lot.
DW is a news hound and we are on the same page now.
All of us are in for a nasty sad lesson in exponential growth in this country. 10% increase a day is roughly doubling each week - we should overtake China in number of Covid-19 reported within two weeks.
Have yet to figure out how to volunteer to help others. DW has asthma and therefore at a high risk of complications. At the moment, sending checks and talking calmly on the phone with family, and at a distance with neighbors, seems to be the best we can do.