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[Helen]

+1

And, there are sympathetic ears in multiple places. My guess is that even if these politicians are not in precisely the right place (i.e.: your US Congressional district), they will still have the connections to help you. Try the link below. Good luck, and congrats on the wedding!

List of the first LGBT holders of political offices in the United States - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Thank you, I will try this.

I really appreciate all the suggests!