Thanks for the insights. I wasn't looking for the benchmarks in order to pat myself on the back, I was just looking for another way track my forward progress. I've done the comparison of life earnings...at about 50% for single income with three kids, but since I am in the military and do not own a home/mortage, my calculations can be a little misleading, but we remain focused on the future bottom line and are mentally prepared for beginning mortage payments as late as our mid-fourties. We are saving hard for this, three 529s, and of course in three retirement accounts. I have not cheated and included a current value of my projected future pension payments, which would be slightly less than my current income now.
Again, I appreicate the discussion, and plan to stick around the FIRE pages for time to come.