ER Eddie
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Introvert = Not sure if it has giving me an advantage.
Another good book is called "Introvert Advantage".
Agree. Good book.
I am surprised to see the poll is THIS lopsided.
Me too. I wonder if it has more to do with being a forum than being ER. I think people who inhabit forums are generally more introverted. ER might play a role, too, though.
I consider the MBTI to be twaddle. What type does that make me?
Twaddle - as in a lot of solemn nonsense.
I just don't cotton to the notion of boiling people down to "types." There are at leat 7 billion types of people, and the fact that we all possess traits is hardly news. I think the whole thing was just cooked up to make money off of companies. Look at the ridiculous questions on the test (which I've been made to take multiple times at work): "Do you prefer the word 'warm' or the word 'cool'"? Somewhere, somebody is laughing...
A lot of people find M-B helpful in understanding themselves, but in the psychology community, it isn't considered a serious instrument for studying or classifying personality. The "introvert vs. extrovert" dimension is a solid one, but I wouldn't put much stock in the other dimensions (maybe thinking/feeling?).
If you want an actual, research-based, well-validated way of classifying "types," then the Big Five model is the way to go. You'll notice that the one trait dimension that appears there is the introvert-extrovert dimension. That one has definitely stood the test of time/research.
Sounds like you don't believe in the notion of classifying people into types, though, which is fine. I do think the notion of traits and types is useful in understanding ourselves and others. Personally, learning that I was an introvert and understanding the advantages/disadvantages of that helped me to become much more self-accepting (for instance, to stop struggling with myself to become more extroverted).
I think any self-proclaimed introvert with more than about 10 posts on this forum is not an introvert.
No, introverts often enjoy expressing themselves in writing. You can do it at your own pace; there is no pressure to keep the conversation moving. You can consider and edit your words before you send them out. You can pick and choose who you are going to respond to. You can type out your thoughts without worrying what you look like (I'm in my jammies right now). You can stop whenever you want and just walk away, without having to figure out how to detach yourself. The other person can't drag you into a longer discussion if you don't want it to happen. You don't have to listen to (read) people if you don't want to. There's a distance and simplicity to it -- it's not like face to face conversation, with all of its inputs and distractions. You can just focus on what you want to say.
So, for an introvert, there are a lot of advantages to talking on forums. I'm a huge innie, and I've always loved conversing on the internet.
The percentage of members that are introverts is amazing. Now I can see why it's easier to be members of forums such as this. The introvert never has to address the posters face to face and it's easier to take stands on issues that they would never do with someone in person. I'm not saying this is bad, it's just something I never thought about.
I would like to now from some of you introverts if I'm correct in my assumption. Is this why introverts join forums such as this?
Because it's easier to take stands than it would be in person? No, not really. I'm pretty direct in person and don't have a problem taking stands. It's more about the factors I mentioned above, imo. Although, those factors do make it easier to express myself, so in a way, I think there is some truth to what you're saying.
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