Ok , so my two cents worth nothing with todays inflation, your still alive. Set up the trust. Not knowing your assets, have it read that for the first 5 years she gets all the dividands from the assets, maintains the trust, and files taxes for the trust through an accountant. The latter gets paid for from the trust. Yea, she could probably get away with a little extra here and there, but dought it. And , here is the point I had to convince myself of, who cares, I am taking a dirt nap.
After 5 years, give her 20 percent of whats left. Or just give peices away to charety and her after 5 years. The main part is that you want here to get some money, and some to charity. So , set some markers. Leave a basic plan on how to invest stuff , if that dosen't work, robo advisor. You can only do so much. I am doing the same now, trustee is my ex wife and my freind. I set some rules, but you cant think of everything. My stuff has to be left to my 12 yo, but she needs a guardian, so for now its my ex. Things change in the future I can change the trust.
After 5 years, give her 20 percent of whats left. Or just give peices away to charety and her after 5 years. The main part is that you want here to get some money, and some to charity. So , set some markers. Leave a basic plan on how to invest stuff , if that dosen't work, robo advisor. You can only do so much. I am doing the same now, trustee is my ex wife and my freind. I set some rules, but you cant think of everything. My stuff has to be left to my 12 yo, but she needs a guardian, so for now its my ex. Things change in the future I can change the trust.