Dad lived to 97 and was at home (alone) until 10 days before his death. He spent next to nothing from age 80 - 97 and easily got by on his SS. He got lucky. The last few years were really hard on him physically but he was determined to avoid the nursing home. I often felt he would have a much more fulfilling life had he spent some time with other people in assisted living than sitting at home alone those last few years.
I doubt I make it anywhere near his age, but I don't think I will be as stubborn as he was about getting help. I finally got him to use a housekeeper once a month and he would "hide" from her when she came to the door. We went through several agencies because he wouldn't let them in or would always cancel. He didn't want to spend the money and didn't "need any help".
I doubt I make it anywhere near his age, but I don't think I will be as stubborn as he was about getting help. I finally got him to use a housekeeper once a month and he would "hide" from her when she came to the door. We went through several agencies because he wouldn't let them in or would always cancel. He didn't want to spend the money and didn't "need any help".