BUM
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A rite of passage in a retirees life is selling the house, extra car(s), and alot of that stuff thats been accumulating over the past few decades. Maybe its to buy a little place across town, in Florida, a doublewide in Arizona, an RV - whatever. It will be smaller and more manageable than what is there now.
Its tough when that giant magnet of family, friends and the G word (I dare not say it aloud, [grandchildren] sssh) really throw an emotional monkeywrench into the ER clockworks. Our children are here and we left the sunny south to be with them during this holiday season. I can't imagine not doing that. We have a large house in NY and for many years its been Home Base. Since early retirement in '05 we've travelled back and forth. This return trip was different. When after a thirteen hour car ride we arrived home to plan a Thanksgiving feast for family and friends, we were greeted by a sight! The house looked like the monkey cage at the Bronx Zoo. From top to bottom, plants were knocked over, curtains ripped, woodwork chewed, lamp shades askew, and poop! Did I mention the poop? Everywhere! Holy Crap, I didn't know whether to s--t or wind my watch!
Well three days of carpet shampooing, two cans of wood filler, and one discovered dead squirrel later... Thanksgiving happened anyway. It was quite nice. The food, the company, it was all wonderful and the hint was made that next year maybe a grandchild (there, I said it) would be among us. That was enough for DW.
DW says its time to make a committment. To me she said this. I hate committments. I don't like writing in pen! I'm huntin' a for sale sign and an RV and DW's digging in. Downsizing, the only thing thats downsizing are my nuts. The squirrell got them...for now. But I'm determined to reduce our real estate exposure. The taxes and maintainence are a real long term threat to the nest egg.
How do others downsize? We pour over the Sunday papers looking for ideas. Some simply don't. Three widows I know still live in their same large homes. They tell me that rising condo fees are about the same as real estate taxes, and "after all this is my home". So to those who have gone before me - how did you downsize and still stay in touch with family and friends and grandchildren?
Its tough when that giant magnet of family, friends and the G word (I dare not say it aloud, [grandchildren] sssh) really throw an emotional monkeywrench into the ER clockworks. Our children are here and we left the sunny south to be with them during this holiday season. I can't imagine not doing that. We have a large house in NY and for many years its been Home Base. Since early retirement in '05 we've travelled back and forth. This return trip was different. When after a thirteen hour car ride we arrived home to plan a Thanksgiving feast for family and friends, we were greeted by a sight! The house looked like the monkey cage at the Bronx Zoo. From top to bottom, plants were knocked over, curtains ripped, woodwork chewed, lamp shades askew, and poop! Did I mention the poop? Everywhere! Holy Crap, I didn't know whether to s--t or wind my watch!
Well three days of carpet shampooing, two cans of wood filler, and one discovered dead squirrel later... Thanksgiving happened anyway. It was quite nice. The food, the company, it was all wonderful and the hint was made that next year maybe a grandchild (there, I said it) would be among us. That was enough for DW.
DW says its time to make a committment. To me she said this. I hate committments. I don't like writing in pen! I'm huntin' a for sale sign and an RV and DW's digging in. Downsizing, the only thing thats downsizing are my nuts. The squirrell got them...for now. But I'm determined to reduce our real estate exposure. The taxes and maintainence are a real long term threat to the nest egg.
How do others downsize? We pour over the Sunday papers looking for ideas. Some simply don't. Three widows I know still live in their same large homes. They tell me that rising condo fees are about the same as real estate taxes, and "after all this is my home". So to those who have gone before me - how did you downsize and still stay in touch with family and friends and grandchildren?