To California Dreamer:
Happy to help-- and I, too, am a weather wimp. Lived for more than twenty years in southern California (in San Diego for ten) then spent 25 in northern California.
We looked around for suitable, less crowded places to move--San Juan Islands in Washington, northwestern Idaho, southern Oregon, western Nevada. After two years of searching, we stopped kidding ourselves: NONE had what we really wanted: lots of sun and mostly warm, dry weather.
The winter weather in southern Arizona is phenomenal--better than San Diego's, I think. Summers are pretty hot but not unbearable. (About ten to twelve degrees cooler than Phoenix.) Humidity rises in July and August during the stormy monsoon season but you can either sweat it out or if you have the resources, spend some time on the San Diego beaches or head to the mountains.
We've been in AZ for a year now (decided on Sedona because my boyfriend wanted a red rock view) but spend just as much time in southern Arizona. We're really happy that we cashed out in California and moved to the southwest. I wish my 82-year-old mom would sell her house in Point Loma and join us...