HFWR
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...in bed.
HFWR said:...in bed.
If you boat, rv or live in some other unconventional manner, you will find a community that does the same. You don't have to be tied down to one physical location to enjoy community.claire said:thanks all for your comments, most people seem to think that being involved in the local community is the key to avoid isolation, im not sure that we will be settling down somewhere since we plan to travel, i am also looking at alternative living spaces ie boat, rv, living conventionally is not for me, i am interested in alternative ways of thinking and living...
dogzmum said:Fear?? How about full blown panic attacks?? Although we had this planned for quite some time, the reality of it all didn't hit until the day we moved. We built a house on an acre, left the rat race, quit our jobs, got rid of most of the clutter and here we are! YIKES..
I was not prepared for the isolation factor at all. We left most of our friends and family 2 hours away! The husband has adjusted now, in fact he went back to work at a home improvement store (to get away from me : ) ) and I am going back to work part time. I am 47, husband is 51. I found that I do LIKE working, although we don't have to do it for the money, I still enjoy a challenge and the social interaction. Plus watching coyotes out my dining room window is not fun for me..... I am a city girl at heart.....
Mountain_Mike said:Nonetheless, it does seem to be common for people to retire and move away to distant states. But, it is a self caused isolation that I have no sympathy for.
shiny said:Mikey, I know that we often want to vent and not have others trying to "solve" our "problems" but maybe you should move to the city and now that Mrs Ha Ha has her full time job and city doings to keep her from being bored she would like to spend more time with you (seeing as she allows conjugal visits and all)? You would be less isolated and away from those dangerous curvy roads and tree branches. Just my unsolicited 2 cents.
Maybe you like the tough love better?
HaHa said:For now, I am going to do what I can here. I have an old dog who isn't long for this world, and I don't want to abandon him, nor put him through a big change.