zinger1457
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But on the mental/emotional side I am tempted to try to proactively calm down players who start to berate themselves, get anxious/in a hurry, or let one bad shot/hole lead to another.
Do you? What approaches have you found to be helpful?
It's hard to know the degree of frustration you're referring to. Every golfer I've ever played with, including myself, gets frustrated at times. I would typically ignore it but having a conversation in between shots to take their mind off of golf might help. If it got so bad that someones poor attitude really bothered me and affected my enjoyment playing I just wouldn't play with them again. I can only think of a couple members at my club that are like that and I doubt talking to either of them about their attitude would do any good, in fact it could be dangerous.