OK, I need the collective brains and experience of the group to help me and DW figure out where to move after ER. We aren't planning on ER for another 7-8 years, but if we found a place now, it would be nice to go ahead and buy, start to travel there and get to know the people and the area. We are currently in a fairly high COL area, especially housing and taxes. Once DD graduates HS, we have made the decision that we are leaving the city and downsizing. I've always loved the mountains, hiking and the outdoors. My wife enjoys the lake for swimming and I for fishing, so a mountain lake somewhere could work. However, neither of us want to be in the middle of nowhere away from civilization. And, we don't have to be on a lake, we are not big into watersports and the like. So, really a nice decent sized town/city that is near the mountains/lake might be ideal. Our initial thought has been North Carolina, although we haven't zeroed in a city. We are open to other places, although, East/Southeast is preferable considering our family ties there.
I know that was quite a rambling post, but any help with some ideas is appreciated.