So DW and I have been scolded for not setting up our legal documentation yet if the worst were to happen to us. We have a good reference now and I'm sure she'll answer most of our questions but does anyone have advice or experience they'd like to share? Our oldest has special needs (Down Syndrome) and is almost 12, the other two are 9 and 5. We know who we'd name to take the kids (and backups). Anything we should keep in mind that we may not be thinking about? Any particular questions you were glad you asked the lawyer? Thanks, and sorry if this has been beaten to death, tried the search function and didn't get any obvious hits.