I'm 32, married to a 30 year old sweetie, have a one year old son and have a decent start on savings. My wife and i bring in a combined 92,500k/year (hasnt always been that way). I currently have a net worth of 102K. My retirement savings thus far is about 27K in my TSP and another 30K in Roth IRAs (wife's included). My other assets would include taxable mutual fund accounts, house equity, titled cars, etc.
My identity crisis is, I just cant make up my mind what kind of monetary lifestyle would make me happiest. For instance, my personal car now is about 10 years old, but in good shape/low mileage. Part of me wants to buy a 30K dollar+ car that's all nice and fancy, another part of me wants to continue frugality and try to max TSPs, IRAs, etc.
I actually like my job (though i'd still prefer not to work if i didnt have to). My wife, I believe, also seems to enjoy working (using her degree) over not working.
Anyway, what i'm getting at, am I the only one that struggles with just considering a defacto 10% savings and living the good life now and just retiring at early/mid 60s vs 15-20% savings or more and retiring in my 50s, sacrificing to retire early? If not, tell me your take on this.
Quite frankly, i cannot say which I think would make me happiest. Both options seem attractive so its as frustrating as hell. If anyone has any insight, i'd appreciate it.
My identity crisis is, I just cant make up my mind what kind of monetary lifestyle would make me happiest. For instance, my personal car now is about 10 years old, but in good shape/low mileage. Part of me wants to buy a 30K dollar+ car that's all nice and fancy, another part of me wants to continue frugality and try to max TSPs, IRAs, etc.
I actually like my job (though i'd still prefer not to work if i didnt have to). My wife, I believe, also seems to enjoy working (using her degree) over not working.
Anyway, what i'm getting at, am I the only one that struggles with just considering a defacto 10% savings and living the good life now and just retiring at early/mid 60s vs 15-20% savings or more and retiring in my 50s, sacrificing to retire early? If not, tell me your take on this.
Quite frankly, i cannot say which I think would make me happiest. Both options seem attractive so its as frustrating as hell. If anyone has any insight, i'd appreciate it.