Bestwifeever
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Sounds your cultural rite of passage is to not move from home. There you go, decision made.
That's fine if that's what you want to do, but just know that's the reason. Not cultural traditions.
It's extravagance. It's just a personal matter of whether this is an extravagance we'll accept.
Haha. I am not too worried about this. There's nothing stopping me from dating while I'm here, it's just harder. I also think any girl who wouldn't date me solely for residing with my parents is one who's not worth pursuing. I'm not the stereotypical basement-dweller in this situation and, contrary to popular belief, I do my own laundry.
I bet that if you took a poll of young people all over the world and asked them if they would rather live with their parents (rent free) or live in their own place (rent free), the vast majority would live on their own. Assuming that's the truth, and I'm confidant that it is, young people don't live with their parents because its cultural, they do it because its a necessity in a lot of the world. Just because a lot of people cant afford something, that doesn't make it extravagant.
What would you do if you won the lottery? Stay at home? If you say you would move out, then you are basing your decision to stay on finances. That's fine if that's what you want to do, but just know that's the reason. Not cultural traditions.
I also think any girl who wouldn't date me solely for residing with my parents is one who's not worth pursuing.
^ from a kid perspective, freedom was worth $x per day - no brainer
I don't think dating was the issue. Do your parents condone sleep-overs?Haha. I am not too worried about this. There's nothing stopping me from dating while I'm here, it's just harder. I also think any girl who wouldn't date me solely for residing with my parents is one who's not worth pursuing. I'm not the stereotypical basement-dweller in this situation and, contrary to popular belief, I do my own laundry.
My first job after college required me to live there. It was like free rent.
It allowed me to save up a stash of cash and buy a condo apt, to the total surprise of co-workers and parents.
Your living at home, also affords you the ability to build up a stash and in a couple of years buy a place rather than renting.
You may find girls are MORE attracted to you since they know your parents would disapprove of you 2-timing the girls, and you will have more available cash to spend on fun things than the guy paying rent/groceries/utilities/parking
I actually do have a down payment fund I've been saving. I can't bring myself to buy instead of rent though, since I'm unsure how long I'll be in this town for.
...You may find girls are MORE attracted to you since they know your parents would disapprove of you 2-timing the girls...