Gates007ca
Confused about dryer sheets
- Joined
- Jan 19, 2005
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Hello all,
I have been reading this forum for a while and must admit I have been shy to post any comments and replies of my own. However, I have always been impressed and benefit from the wisdom of many posters of this forum.
The reason I am posting this time is that I have come to a delimma in life that can definitely benefit from your collective advices and wisdom.
First of all, a little bit about myself. I am Canadian, mid-30s and dream of ER ever since I started working many moons ago. Career wise, I have progressed over the years to managerial level in an international accounting firm but does not see my career will significantly further ahead in the immediate future. In terms of skillset, I have a graduate degree in management and a CPA. I have been working on financial consulting assignments for large corporations in Canada and USA. I am of Asian descent and my native language is Cantonese but have been in Canada for over 20 years. Suffice to say I am fairly "Canadianize/Americanize"... All my immediate family members are in Asia, however, and I am still single, with no mortgage and kids. I have saved up closed to 100k in RRSP (retirement fund) and have about 70k in non-retirement fund. Both of them are roughly 80% stocks and 20% Bonds/money market. As you can see these are important background information to consider my delimma...
I have recently came back from a vacation in Hong Kong (where my parents live). My dad is in his 70s and his health is deteriorating. My mom is a little healthier. I have always been somewhat relectent to move back to Asia because I found the lifestyle to be too hectic and I always have a decent job in Canada. I see moving back is a big risk and I am not a risk taker and not very big on changes... I usually see a million of reasons NOT to go (too crowded, too much risk to find a new job, will be too busy....etc.) However, this time, seeing my dad's health is deteriorating has really changed my mind somewhat. Besides, the economy appears to be improving and there seems to be a lot of opportunities in China as many have suggested to me (although I do not speak Mandarin).
My delimma is the following:
If I stay in Canada and given the level of income I have, I can retire in 20 years to a reasonable (but not luxurious) lifestyle. My job is pretty stable and I consider myself to be relatively marketable in Canada with my academic and work experience. However, if I stay, I felt I am not doing enough for my parents, ie. to be closer to them when they need me. (In Canada, from a ER perspective, I would see it as average return and low risk)
If I move to Asia, a lot of people have told me there are big opportunities in the next few years and I may be able to capitalize them (possible 2x to 3x of my current salaries) and be able to retire more quickly (i.e. in 10 years). The risks are significantly higher (i.e. nothing may pan out and I may have to delay my ER plan i.e. to 25 years). I would categorize this as high return and high risks. However, on a human factor, I will be able to spend more time with my family and be a good son.
Given that I am not a risk taker, I am not overly incline to move to Asia but my heart appears to be telling me otherwise (logic vs. emotion). I am starting to rationalize that going to Asia may not be that risky given my work experience in Canada is somewhat in demand in Asia as well and I can always bunk up with my folks (for a short time) while I start up there.
The other option is to ask for an international transfer within my current firm. However, I have just recently joined this company so any move will not be likely immediate, if it happens at all.
What are your thoughts? Your comments are much appreciated.
Gates.
I have been reading this forum for a while and must admit I have been shy to post any comments and replies of my own. However, I have always been impressed and benefit from the wisdom of many posters of this forum.
The reason I am posting this time is that I have come to a delimma in life that can definitely benefit from your collective advices and wisdom.
First of all, a little bit about myself. I am Canadian, mid-30s and dream of ER ever since I started working many moons ago. Career wise, I have progressed over the years to managerial level in an international accounting firm but does not see my career will significantly further ahead in the immediate future. In terms of skillset, I have a graduate degree in management and a CPA. I have been working on financial consulting assignments for large corporations in Canada and USA. I am of Asian descent and my native language is Cantonese but have been in Canada for over 20 years. Suffice to say I am fairly "Canadianize/Americanize"... All my immediate family members are in Asia, however, and I am still single, with no mortgage and kids. I have saved up closed to 100k in RRSP (retirement fund) and have about 70k in non-retirement fund. Both of them are roughly 80% stocks and 20% Bonds/money market. As you can see these are important background information to consider my delimma...
I have recently came back from a vacation in Hong Kong (where my parents live). My dad is in his 70s and his health is deteriorating. My mom is a little healthier. I have always been somewhat relectent to move back to Asia because I found the lifestyle to be too hectic and I always have a decent job in Canada. I see moving back is a big risk and I am not a risk taker and not very big on changes... I usually see a million of reasons NOT to go (too crowded, too much risk to find a new job, will be too busy....etc.) However, this time, seeing my dad's health is deteriorating has really changed my mind somewhat. Besides, the economy appears to be improving and there seems to be a lot of opportunities in China as many have suggested to me (although I do not speak Mandarin).
My delimma is the following:
If I stay in Canada and given the level of income I have, I can retire in 20 years to a reasonable (but not luxurious) lifestyle. My job is pretty stable and I consider myself to be relatively marketable in Canada with my academic and work experience. However, if I stay, I felt I am not doing enough for my parents, ie. to be closer to them when they need me. (In Canada, from a ER perspective, I would see it as average return and low risk)
If I move to Asia, a lot of people have told me there are big opportunities in the next few years and I may be able to capitalize them (possible 2x to 3x of my current salaries) and be able to retire more quickly (i.e. in 10 years). The risks are significantly higher (i.e. nothing may pan out and I may have to delay my ER plan i.e. to 25 years). I would categorize this as high return and high risks. However, on a human factor, I will be able to spend more time with my family and be a good son.
Given that I am not a risk taker, I am not overly incline to move to Asia but my heart appears to be telling me otherwise (logic vs. emotion). I am starting to rationalize that going to Asia may not be that risky given my work experience in Canada is somewhat in demand in Asia as well and I can always bunk up with my folks (for a short time) while I start up there.
The other option is to ask for an international transfer within my current firm. However, I have just recently joined this company so any move will not be likely immediate, if it happens at all.
What are your thoughts? Your comments are much appreciated.
Gates.