The irony is that I am driving farther from home to go to the store more often, and spending more time in the store; exactly what I should not be doing.
We were going to BJs (30 miles away) once a month for staples, which I mostly ordered for in-store pickup. In between, we stopped occasionally at local stores, and I got many dry-goods groceries from Walmart.com at prices similar to what the store itself would charge.
BJs responded to the virus crisis by canceling in-store pickup. They don't offer free delivery. They will deliver, and say it's "Free," but the cost is as much as $1.00 or more per item, baked into the price.
Walmart.com simply ran out of everything, while Amazon either ran out or raised prices.
Local stores are perpetually out of TP, disinfectant, rubbing alcohol, butter, eggs, meat, spaghetti, canned goods. There is no point jockeying for a delivery when they don't have the items. Several stores have suspended not just delivery, but in-store pickup.
Thus, I am now going more often, and driving farther. In addition, I'm leaving Mr. A. home, because he is older. This means I can't send him to one end of the store to look for X while I browse the other end for Y.
And yes, the stores are crowded. We are a resort town, the six-month snowbirds have not yet left, and I doubt many of them will be leaving any time soon given the situation up North.