Hello all.
Introduction about myself:
I am from Ottawa, Canada, 32 yrs old, DW is 31 and new baby boy - 4months
Our single 4b home is paid off. We own 6 rental units with great tenants and will be completed paid off in 5yrs or 4 if we make aggressive payment. I am in the process of buy a fixer upper triplex.
My wife is on mat leave but I don't think she is going back to work - maybe part time for the social interaction with adults. We are financially fine if she dicided not to go back to work but if she works for two more years our rental property would have less mortgage balance.
I am gald that I found this site. I have not told many people of my situtation because many cannot relate. I felt alone, thinking I was the only one wanting to retire early and be be FI by 35yrs old and have the option to RE. I will likely not stop working but will find a job that would allow me to work less.
Being the oldest of 7 children and an immigrate to Canada, I have always been good with my money and knew the difference betweeen needs and wants. I can live below my means but a the same time I have enjoyed my life. I have travelled to USA (Florida, NYC, LA, Las Vesga), Hong Kong, China, and this summer our family is going to Europe. My wife and son are staying for 5 and I am staying for 3 weeks.
My problem is I have a wife who likes to spend money. She wants to enjoy the "good life". There is nothing wrong with it, but it does not make me any happier. I am a simple guy with simple needs. I do it for my wife - but she said it show when I am not enjoying myself. I tell her that it should not about spend money to enjoy life.
Anyways, I am looking forward to hear your comments and stories. This forum has really motivate me to aim for FIRE.
Introduction about myself:
I am from Ottawa, Canada, 32 yrs old, DW is 31 and new baby boy - 4months
Our single 4b home is paid off. We own 6 rental units with great tenants and will be completed paid off in 5yrs or 4 if we make aggressive payment. I am in the process of buy a fixer upper triplex.
My wife is on mat leave but I don't think she is going back to work - maybe part time for the social interaction with adults. We are financially fine if she dicided not to go back to work but if she works for two more years our rental property would have less mortgage balance.
I am gald that I found this site. I have not told many people of my situtation because many cannot relate. I felt alone, thinking I was the only one wanting to retire early and be be FI by 35yrs old and have the option to RE. I will likely not stop working but will find a job that would allow me to work less.
Being the oldest of 7 children and an immigrate to Canada, I have always been good with my money and knew the difference betweeen needs and wants. I can live below my means but a the same time I have enjoyed my life. I have travelled to USA (Florida, NYC, LA, Las Vesga), Hong Kong, China, and this summer our family is going to Europe. My wife and son are staying for 5 and I am staying for 3 weeks.
My problem is I have a wife who likes to spend money. She wants to enjoy the "good life". There is nothing wrong with it, but it does not make me any happier. I am a simple guy with simple needs. I do it for my wife - but she said it show when I am not enjoying myself. I tell her that it should not about spend money to enjoy life.
Anyways, I am looking forward to hear your comments and stories. This forum has really motivate me to aim for FIRE.