CorporateSoldier
Recycles dryer sheets
- Joined
- Feb 11, 2011
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I am by nature a planner and a "work before play" person like everyone on this forum seems to be. That being said, I have been focusing more the last couple of years on enjoying life in the moment vesus constantly plannning for the future. I am curious what the folks here who are a ways out from FIRE do to enjoy the here and now with a focus on things that costs money at the possible expense of saving more for retirement.
I am 44 and most likely 15 years away from retirement - i contribute the max to my 401k each year, fully fund two IRAs and also contribute to a separate stock portfolio each year. So, here are the things my family and I splurge on now that helps us enjoy the here and now, even if it means retiring at 60 or so instead of 55.
-Vacations: We go on a few great vacations a year. Just booked a cruise for our anniversary. We try to travel every week I have off from work and beginning in June I get four weeks a year.
-Vehicles: We drive very nice cars (purchased 2-3 years old and always at a sharp price). I also have a couple of motorcycles that I get tremendous enjoyment from. Only payment I have is on my car - everything else purchased with cash.
-Tennis Club - joined one last year and loving it.
-Dining: We eat out at least onece a week - nothing too fancy but a date night is very good for a relationship.
-Dogs - two artsy fartsy dogs that require lots of grooming. My wife loves them and it's kind of her hobby.
So - very curious to hear from others and wondering if this is a taboo topic. Am I a bad person because I would rather take a cruise every year, drive a BMW and retire at 60 versus retiring at 55? Will I be banned from this forum after only a few posts?
I am 44 and most likely 15 years away from retirement - i contribute the max to my 401k each year, fully fund two IRAs and also contribute to a separate stock portfolio each year. So, here are the things my family and I splurge on now that helps us enjoy the here and now, even if it means retiring at 60 or so instead of 55.
-Vacations: We go on a few great vacations a year. Just booked a cruise for our anniversary. We try to travel every week I have off from work and beginning in June I get four weeks a year.
-Vehicles: We drive very nice cars (purchased 2-3 years old and always at a sharp price). I also have a couple of motorcycles that I get tremendous enjoyment from. Only payment I have is on my car - everything else purchased with cash.
-Tennis Club - joined one last year and loving it.
-Dining: We eat out at least onece a week - nothing too fancy but a date night is very good for a relationship.
-Dogs - two artsy fartsy dogs that require lots of grooming. My wife loves them and it's kind of her hobby.
So - very curious to hear from others and wondering if this is a taboo topic. Am I a bad person because I would rather take a cruise every year, drive a BMW and retire at 60 versus retiring at 55? Will I be banned from this forum after only a few posts?