24601NoMore
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
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- Dec 8, 2015
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You got over 140 posts and don't consider us "helpful" actually this is the second thread, the first one was the high cost of custom building. No matter what anyone offers you seem to come back to "yea, but".....you really think anything someone says here is going to be a light bulb moment?
I didn't say the 140+ posts were not helpful as they definitely were. I was saying the snarky response was not helpful.
The high cost of building is a legitimate issue in trying to RE - unless you are far more wealthy than I am. Not sure what your point is.
It is not simple trying to figure any of this out. If you have a magic silver bullet answer, I'm all ears.
And here I thought the entire purpose of the forum was to discuss issues around RE and what it means to all of us.
I appreciate the help of the "140+" replies but am going to dial back - the tone of this forum at times is so overly sensitive and hypercritical that I quite frankly cannot deal with it. I posted asking for honest feedback - and for the most part, got it. One or two people seem over focused on nit picking my questions. Can't fathom why, except at times that just seems to be how things are.
And, to net it out - there are a whole lot of very legitimate "yeah, but" facets to this decision. That's just the way it is unfortunately. Wish it was easier but it is not easy deciding where to spend most of the rest of your life with a spouse who had a near fatal, near death experience.
Sorry to bother any of you with my silly questions. I'll take my decisions elsewhere.