Are You Allowing Others Into Your Home

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Unfortunately, BestBuy emailed me Saturday night that they have cancelled all appliance installations. I ordered a replacement cooktop for the one that stopped working two weeks ago and it was to be delivered/installed on Friday. Now they say they will drop it at the front door but will not bring it inside. I have no idea how I will get it in the house or what to do with it for the weeks or months until I can get it installed. I'm going to try and call them mid-week to see if they will just hold it until installations are possible again. I'm having to be very creative with my cooking as I just have a small induction burner. Fortunately the oven and grill and slow cooker are working fine, but I may spring for an instant pot to give me a bit more flexibility in recipe choice.

Nothing on order here, but I got that same email and wondered how on earth people are expected to get large appliances into their homes without any assistance?

If you're not in a hurry, a slow cooker is a wonderful tool.
 
Update from my previous post about having my house on the market. There was four showings on Saturday and got three offers. I accepted one. No more showings. Yeah! I will still do my nightly wipe-downs with the bleach solution.

I will be having the junk hauler in next week to get a couple of couches. All of the other junk will be in the garage for him to pick up.

Other than one small grocery run, I don't plan on going anywhere until the closing on my purchased property in ten days.
 
Update on getting new countertops: having not gotten a reply from the sales rep, I got onto the company site. Closed till 3/31 although any installations they had scheduled are continuing. Nothing to do but wait at this point. I fell bad for the employees working on commission; I suspect a lot of people are going to decide not to have the work done now. Since I was funding it with a tax refund and an anticipated reduction in Estimated tax payments for this year, I'm going ahead.
 
So whaddya pick for countertops?

Seems like commercial places use quartz...I'm looking for something as low-maintenance as possible to replace my generic Formica, but can handle a hot pan.
 
Sadly, not at this time. At family get gatherings, we put a kitchen island packed with food. Everyone's fingers into each other plates. Niece takes her fork and tastes what's on my plate. It's a free for all share everything food fest. Basketball, football, birthdays, graduations...we share all our germs all over the place.
I fear that will never happen again. It never occurred to me how unsanitary that was, but no one cared, one germ fits all type thing. We had the best times!
Today, no one comes in our house, not even family.
 
So whaddya pick for countertops?

Seems like commercial places use quartz...I'm looking for something as low-maintenance as possible to replace my generic Formica, but can handle a hot pan.

I'm getting Cambria and I agree that it's not as resilient as granite. I had granite in my last house and you could put ANYTHING hot on it. I think my current countertops are Corian so I've gotten used to being careful with hot pans and cookie sheets.

Cambria is made in the US (it's an "engineered" product of quartz and resin) so it helps the US economy, too!
 
I was raised in a very fussy family. No one ate other’s food or off their plate even if they were family. My husband’s family not so much. We are isolating due to age and health.
 
I just had a plumber in - my only toilet has been unflushable for several days. I've been getting by with a bucket of water from the tub into the bowl, but decided I couldn't do that for the duration.

He wore what looked like form-fitting leather gloves (which is protection for him!) and never came closer to me than several feet away. I wiped down everything he touched after he left.

He'll be back Monday with a new toilet to install it. He said he does curb-side pickup from all of his wholesalers now which makes everything easier for him.
 
We cancelled the in person meeting with the termite company rep that was scheduled for today and postponed the scheduled tenting that was scheduled for 2 weeks from now. Termites get to continue doing damage because we have no place to go to while they are killed.

We set up and tested a skype set up for son's piano lessons. Now there is no reason for in person lessons during the 'stay at home' period.
 
We have a company coming tomorrow to perform a weed & feed estimate for our house. They have already indicated they will knock on the door to indicate they will be on the property. Once they have looked over the front and back yards, they will write up an estimate and leave it at the front door. They will call later in the day to discuss the estimate.
 
We returned early from our winter stay in Mexico this past week. So far no one else has been in our home since we left. We normally have our cleaning service, a crew of 4 people, come every other week. I'm leaning toward canceling, even if we pay them anyway, to keep the space pure. Anyone else protecting your homes in this manner?

we'll likely do the same when we get back.
 
We have weekly cleaning service. They do one side of house, we stay in other. Then switch and stay 6' away.
Just got contract on home, so no more showings! I did set up a big hand sanitizer bottle in the entrance. The realtor leaves lights on so they don't touch.

My wife is on audio immune suppressants so need to be careful and are also in our mid 60's as well.
 
Just pay your cleaning or household staff and let them take care of their own families.

If you have a cleaning person you can afford this. They most likely can not afford to be without pay which is why they do this in the first place.

Just do it!!
 
SIL/BIL came by today to drop off a seed spreader. We met them outside and chatted for a few minutes (at a distance) but that was it. DW had surgery in a large hospital w/ known COVID patients a few weeks ago and BIL works at a large university hospital...so not taking any chances. It was kinda odd not sit out back with them and have a few beers, though. :(

Just pay your cleaning or household staff and let them take care of their own families.

If you have a cleaning person you can afford this. They most likely can not afford to be without pay which is why they do this in the first place.

Just do it!!

Our neighbor's housekeeper was there today and speny a good 5 hours there. I have also seen several cars come and spend a decent amount of time visiting the last few days. Also, school teachers have been driving around the town doing a "parade" of sorts and I watched the neighbor's kids run up to the windows of several of the teacher's cars. I don't think a lot of people understand "social distancing"
 
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We had to let the furnace repair guy into our house today.
 
I went into my office today; there were only two other people from my company there, are far as I could tell, the office manager and someone in Accounting. I talked to the office manager for a few minutes, as he and I have known each other for a while, and I did need his help with something. We handed each other something once, by stretching our arms out, but then stepped back again, and that was the closest I got to anyone by a long shot. I did bring home something from my coworker's office, and she came to pick it up (we live pretty close to each other, and I had offered). We talked to each other on my front lawn for a while from about 10-15 feet away. She has two small kids, so I think she was just glad to have another adult to talk to! :LOL:
 
We canceled our housekeeper and are paying her anyway. We cleaned ourselves today. We are not letting anybody in our house.
 
We paid the house cleaner not to come. lol DW vacuumed the house today and cleaned the kitchen. I left her pay equal to the house keeper's on the kitchen table. lol!
 
Nobody gets in our home. Aside from the obvious (at least to us!) risk of getting sick and infecting others, we don’t care for anyone else knowing anything about our supplies, security, layout, etc. If this gets half as bad as I think it will, people will be getting killed for their “stuff” when the unprepared get hungry and poor. Anyone who doesn’t yet recognize this as a possibility is a few fries short of a Happy meal. We are hardening security and not even talking about supplies, preparedness, etc. Not with anyone.

Our guitar and mandolin teacher is now sending us DVD’s weekly instead of doing in person lessons. He is still coughing pretty badly from a previous bout with bronchitis. It makes us cringe when we hear it, but we are sure glad he isn’t sitting three feet from us. Makes me want to spray the DVD player with Lysol...
 
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So-called Spanish Influenza

I have written and done research on the so-called Spanish Influenza on my area (central Nebraska). Lots of illnesses and lots of deaths in this area, and, rural Nebraska was hit pretty hard, even remote ranches 50 or so miles from the nearest town. My intention is not to alarm anyone, but if you are in an immune compromised group and going anywhere or letting anyone into your house, you are taking a considerable risk. Based on the 1918 experience, the virus will get almost everywhere eventually. One major challenge to it is that it appears to be contagious several days before symptoms manifest themselves. The 1918 epidemic foretells what is going on now. Business wanted to reopen. They did. Cases spiked. Business closed again. Politicians wanted meeting bans lifted so they could campaign. Bans were lifted. Cases spiked. People wanted schools opened again. Schools opened. Cases spiked. Everybody better start acting like they have the virus and everyone else has it too, or else that will be the reaity.
 
DW wants to cancel the monthly cleaning person. She'll get her way, but my opinion is that the house smells like bleach after the cleaner comes. She's way younger than us and we could easily avoid her.

DW's sister (widow who lives alone near us) and we continue to visit and cook together once or twice a week. Neither she nor we see anyone else. We have discussed and think this is safe enough for the moment, but might curtail when things get worse.

The sad part is that our nephew, 23, had been living in one of the spare bedrooms. He works at Starbuck's, and we were wondering if we could live with that, when he announced that his girlfriend was about to take a job cleaning hospitals. Yikes! We told him he'd have to leave. Next day, Starbuck's permits employees to take a month off, which he takes advantage of, and says he and girlfriend will stop seeing each other for the duration. Makes us want to let him stay, and we went down that path until I asked "what happens if you get sick?" We decided to stick to the decision, can't put that much uncertainty down the road when options might be fewer. Everyone's upset, including his parents. We think the decision was right, but we didn't handle it well, never having dealt with a pandemic before.
 
My state has a Stay at Home Order in place but there are many essential businesses that can remain open including services to maintain the safety and sanitation of residences (plumbers, custodial services, etc.). My yard guy came this week to aerate but he stays outside and we talk by phone. And I am directing my housekeeper not to come for the next month but will pay her.

However some of my 60 and 70 year old neighbors have had visitors at their homes this week and two share the same handyman who has been there working on minor home improvements. And I was invited to a couple of small get togethers at their homes. If they did not have so many other visitors, it might be tempting to go. But I declined because I have an underlying health condition and tend to get a bad cold each year with a lot of upper respiratory symptoms. Also I live alone with no nearby relatives so am on my own if I get the virus. My city is the viral epicenter for the state and it has definitely spread to our community. My neighbors are extroverts so I know this isolation is harder on them than it is on me but I am surprised that they are not being more cautious.
 
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Just the gardeners outside, grandson / granddaughter / daughter inside. My grandson moved back home while teaching 1 class & completing college online. He goes back-and-forth to my daughter's home and sometimes brings my granddaughter back with him. But that's it. I am walking 2 to 4 miles a day in the morning with the dog so I pass people outside. This morning I discovered that Joe's coffee shop is still open downtown so I will probably start picking up my coffee there to support small business
 
We cancelled our housecleaning visits. It seems silly to have someone come in to our house to clean it when we are stuck home all day with virtually nothing to do. Cleaning will at least keep us busy and I’d rather not have any strangers in our house anyway.
 
Our 96 year old friend Bob was in our kitchen today. Wearing a mask, he dropped off his shopping list (I order groceries online for him) and he "borrowed" my dog for a few hours . Maintained 8 ft. separation. He's normally a very social guy, lots of friends, always doing something with someone in our neighborhood. Not now. He's doing the right thing and isolating, but it is really hard on him. That's why my dog now spends a lot of time with him.
 
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